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I have really hairy body which I shave once in every 10 days. But since the hairs are coarse it easily gets prucklp itchy and grows back soon.
If a guy got naked first time around you and you see his legs this way how would you think and feel about him?

Fresh shaven :

After a couple of days :

I a am overly hairy guy which I obviously hate. I have tried shaving , waxing , removal creams , trimmer and epilator. Since the hair is pretty coarse and thick Its really really painful to wax/epilate especially the torso. Also I itch a lot for a couple of days after I shave , get ingrown hair after waxing. The short trimmed hair feels too stubbly. Damn. It's sort of curse. I have almost lost self esteem and confidence. Always feel hairy messy guy whom no girl would admire /want. If you were in my situation how would you do about this unwanted hairiness?

What would you expect and prefer to see whenever you see a guys naked body..

1) His natural "very" hairy legs, thigh and arms...

Or

2) His nicely shaven sort of stubbly legs, thighs and arms

Do you think that shave legs , thighs and arms look feminine on men?
How can male legs/thighs and arms look feminine anyway... because male and female built is different.

And if a man is over the top hairy , then it's better for him to shave them?

I am overly hairy guy which effects my self esteem and self confidence. Also I do feel undeserving and messy gross due to it.
I have tried waxing and epilation but I couldn't do it on torso , I did on legs but I got itchy ingrown hairs and tiny pimples. I do shave it on whole body , it does get itchy for next 2 days and it gets so stubbly prickly to touch. Not nice.
I have tried closely trimming, even it feels prickly stubbly.

It sucks. It feels sort of lifelong curse.

Now what?

Some girls think it's a turn on to be hairy, some even think it's a turn off to shave your body hair because they see it as masculine. Some think the exact opposite..
And again I'm not talking about people who are so hairy that it gets gross.

In general women like an average hairy man with decent leg , arm hair and some light dusting of hair on torso.
But in case a man is much more hairy man than an average is supposed to be... he is VERY hairy.
Would you prefer :
A.) If he keeps himself totally waxed/shaved bare everywhere neck down to ankles
B.) If he keeps himself natural as he is everywhere with just groomed private bush.