Search Results: shy when it comes to approaching guys

How should a Caucasian girl approach an Asian guy?

Hey guys! I'm a freshman in college, and there's this really cute Japanese guy (from Japan, he's not American) in one of my classes. I've heard that when it comes to Asian guys, the girl should make the first move because...

starchick21

Xper 5 Age: 30

How do I change the way I think about girls?

All my life I've been kind of a funny shy kinda guy. And I've never had a girlfriend. Yep! From childhood, I have this mentality that girls are like angels, they are sweet, pretty, beautiful, caring, loving and they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I change my mentality about "being with the one"?

I'm an Asian. All my life I've been kind of a funny shy kinda guy. And I've never had a girlfriend. Yep! From childhood, I have this mentality that girls are like angels, they are sweet, pretty, beautiful, caring,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is it so intimidating to approach & sit next to a naturally beautiful female in life?

I really hate feeling this way & really want to evolve myself but I feel that it's just too tough to talk to any normal girl with the face of a beautiful princess. I did have a few female friends a long time ago & we...

ncannon18

Guru Age: 34

How to start the convo?

Background: Have a family friend thats my age, really gorgeous, who I've been around and worked with. Due to her looks she's constantly getting hit on and drooled over, but I've kept my attraction to her to myself because...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why Is He Ignoring Me? Its Inevitably (probably) that I Have To Say Hi... (we've known eachother since we were young through my church)?

(I know my age says 18 but Im 15). So, I've known this guy outside my school for years through church. Never really talked to each other but for sure, we knew of each other's presence. Then, my freshmen year, I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

I'm too shy sometimes?

I am somewhat shy when it comes to talking to strangers in general whether it's online or in person. However, lately I have been approached frequently by all kinds of guys trying to get my attention. What exactly do I do?

Kyra-1

Xper 5 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

My crush is acting rude/ignoring me at times, should I ask why?

Okay so I'm totally fed up with this guy. It's been going on for a year now and lets just say he is the nicest guy ever, but he makes me feel like absolute crap and I don't know what his intentions are. He stared at me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: Do you love it when you look at shy guys with a flirty smile & approach them?

Because as a kid I used to have lots of girls giving me the flirty looks a longvwith the demonstrating on how they can give out flirting signals. Some guys love it because they want win the girls over, but for me on the...

ncannon18

Guru Age: 34

Relationships

Do ladies love curtain guys who are super nervous/shy around them, but are extremely brave when it comes to doing manly things. Is this normal?

The reason I asked this question is because I feel normal when I do some activities that I usually do like watch bad movies; warm up on my fighting skills; & act really manly, but when it comes to talking or even sitting...

ncannon18

Guru Age: 34

How to ask this cute freshman out?

Ok, I'm a sophomore in rotc and she's a freshman. We both met in theater, and since then, we've been acquaintances, with her acting in a movie I made and us playing classmates that date in a play. I want to get to know...

DudeFromTexas

Xper 4 Age: 27

Should I go approach this gym guy?

So I've been going to this gym for roughly a year now and I noticed that there is this guy who may has interest in me, he often looks at me and just happen to be near me. There was this one time where he talked to me by...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I SUCK at flirting with and approaching guys. Is there some kind of art to it?

I'm a naturally shy and pretty introverted person that becomes painfully shy and extremely awkward around guys. And if I like him? Forget it. There's a backstory with why I'm like that around guys. 7th grade there was...

CHARismatic110

Editor Age: 38

Society & Politics

Do you find socially awkward people off putting/tips for social awkwardness?

I have a friend who is extremely socially awkward and shy. Whenever we go out places she never makes any new friends and clings to me the whole time. When a guy does approach her she's so awkward that it can be painful to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ladies, would you ever kiss shy guys that really feels nervous around you most times in life & flirt with them to get them out of their brick shells?

So, I hear that most shy guys including me having a lot of trouble speaking to a lot of females lately. It's like we act like ourselves when we watch bad movies or place dangerous video game, but when it comes to our love...

ncannon18

Guru Age: 34

Relationships

How can I get over this? How can I approach him? Anyone experienced something similar?

There's this guy, who my friends and I think, likes me. He comes over and talks to me and he's super nice and I like him back. he asked me out once and ended up joining me and my friends for a movie. Anyways, I have no...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is she interested or still hasn't gotten over her ex (or could it be both)?

Well, here is the-kinda complicated-situation. For the record, I am a pretty shy guy when it comes to approaching a woman that I really like, even though in every other situation I am very hearty. So, there is this girl...

OtavioConsone

Xper 4 Age: 37