Okay so I'm totally fed up with this guy. It's been going on for a year now and lets just say he is the nicest guy ever, but he makes me feel like absolute crap and I don't know what his intentions are.
He stared at me all the time with no smile. When I looked, he looked away quickly. He was really awkward around me, was really polite though and always did favors for me. Thing is... he's really outgoing with everybody except me. It makes me feel like he hates me.. he avoids me and acts like i'm not even there some times. He will look right at me with a straight face not even say hi and walk away.
He laughs with everybody else and has a sense of humour and smiles then the second he comes around me he acts all serious. Once in a while he asks me what's up or says hi but that's about it. If I'm with him and nobody else is around sometimes he will start a convo about something, but I feel rejected and hurt. I can't stand to be around him. It hurts to be rejected by a crush but I didn't do anything I swear.
Granted, I did act kind of cold towards him cause i'm really shy and sometimes I avoid him too unintentionally, but I really wouldn't if I knew he didn't have some sort of hatred for me. I think I'm gonna approach him and say why are you acting like this? Is it a bad idea? I mean I don't wanna put him on the spot and point out all the things he does "wrong" but I'm sick of feeling sick to my stomach when he's around... and sick with jealousy over all the other people he talks to
He stared at me all the time with no smile. When I looked, he looked away quickly. He was really awkward around me, was really polite though and always did favors for me. Thing is... he's really outgoing with everybody except me. It makes me feel like he hates me.. he avoids me and acts like i'm not even there some times. He will look right at me with a straight face not even say hi and walk away.
He laughs with everybody else and has a sense of humour and smiles then the second he comes around me he acts all serious. Once in a while he asks me what's up or says hi but that's about it. If I'm with him and nobody else is around sometimes he will start a convo about something, but I feel rejected and hurt. I can't stand to be around him. It hurts to be rejected by a crush but I didn't do anything I swear.
Granted, I did act kind of cold towards him cause i'm really shy and sometimes I avoid him too unintentionally, but I really wouldn't if I knew he didn't have some sort of hatred for me. I think I'm gonna approach him and say why are you acting like this? Is it a bad idea? I mean I don't wanna put him on the spot and point out all the things he does "wrong" but I'm sick of feeling sick to my stomach when he's around... and sick with jealousy over all the other people he talks to
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