Why would my crush be rude all of sudden?

[Anonymous]

So this guy that I have a class with is confusing. Okay so maybe he has a girlfriend, he walks with this girl but on on social media he says he wishes he had a girlfriend who played Roblox and listen to music together. Before all of this once he put a video on story and it was about him saying he’s tried of everything and him being sad, and I said bruh are you alright? And he answered L M A O no. Why was he laughing. Anyways that ended and he became rude. Whenever we get to 1st period together he would hold the door for me but this time he opened the door for himself and the door shut in front of my face. Just saying he’s giving me looks that look like they hate me but seems nervous. I don't know what to think about this. Is he mad I probably friend-zoned him I don't know. What do you think? He has a girlfriend I think maybe they’re dating, but why would he always look at me and be nervous and so mean.

[anonChineseMale]

This sounds like middle school or like freshmen in high school. Well in my opinion he's probably an emotional wreck and his parents are unaware and potentially part of the issue. He's in a state where he has a girlfriend or one he is dating but not one that gives him the attention that you do and maybe he does have a small crush on you. Whatever happened before he snap might of been a message unread or misinterpreted. Anyways, don't get caught up with guys that are indirect because it's just going to hurt both of you because you two cannot communicate on the same level or degree. It's fun to flirt but flirting can only take a relationship so far. One of you has to come out and see if the relationship can be something more granted only one of you has to be able to see a more intimate relationship to act. Being indirect can be a fall back for many people because they are afraid to be let down and on the other hand the person receiving it doesn't want to let you down either. And take it as you will, you are young so experience both love and let down/heartbreak. Better understand it for yourself now than not knowing what to do later. These are things people have to experience for themselves, it's not easy and may be scary as hell but life goes on and we continue to search for that one. And enjoy all of the experiences you get from this good and bad. Life without risk and reward isn't much of a life anymore if you get what you expect all of the time.