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I would want to cook and clean after my guy in a relationship. It is not like making a maid or slave out of myself but maybe I just like to take care of a guy Im with. I am a student and have a job related to programming (which means I earn for myself), however I feel good and Im drawn back home when I know I have to cook for someone. Another thing can be my submissive instincts and being from eastern culture. BUT does cooking and cleaning for a guy, make me a degraded object for him?

Ok , a big part of me just is just thinking I am over thinking this whole thing. But here it is , I need advice.

First off, you should know I have had only 3 relationships , (I am 28) and only one I considered really serious. I dont get into relationships unless I'm really sure on all angles its worth it. Usually takes me a good while to commit anyhow to someone.
Anyways , I met this guy and he's really great. Well educated, big thing for me, we have great chemistry and everything else is great ;) He wanted to get in a relationship and it was a little soon so I advised him I wanted to date a bit first. I caved in the following week and said yes. I wasn't seeing anyone else and he was too good to pass up.

The problem is that he does message me late sometimes and is weird about letting inviting me to stay the night. It throws me off a bit. I did make a joke about it once and he just told me he really didn't want me to think that and would make sure we spend time together doing something. We have gone out to bars and over at his friends, I also met his brother last weekend and his friends. But after a night out at his friends , I asked him if we could just stay at his place so I didn't have to drive all the way home and he was just like , no I dont want to leave my car here and have to get it.. etc. and I have asked him if he just wants to do the casual thing for now till we get more settled n he was just like , no no why would you want to do that. I really want to be with you.

I asked him about it and his excuse was just that he is a messy guy and he worries about how it looks. he's does tell me he is busy a lot during the day , which i understand , he is a graduate student and I just finished my undergraduate and will be going to grad school.

Honestly , I feel like everything is fine Im just scared about relationships and over think things? or does something seem weird here? I do believe him. Just seems different than anything I had before

Hello, I am 20 years old, live in South Carolina, and have have been graduated for two years now. I recently started talking to my former math teacher (from 8th grade). We've been emailing quite a bit, I'll stop by his class after school gets out so I can talk to him and catch up. He is 50 (yes I know 30 years is a big gap) and is very attractive and fit. I'm not looking for a relationship at all. Maybe just a little fun. I want to know if I should pursue it or not. I've listed a few things that make me unsure of how feels.
1: I used to babysit one of his current students and he said he was going to tell him that he a had a good looking babysitter
2: he asked me if I wanted to join him for a meal one time and it's still a standing offer
3:I pretty sure I've caught him looking at my body.
4:he showed me pictures of his camping trip and he didn't have a shirt on In one of the pictures and I told him he was in great shape for being an older gentleman. Later he told me that I'm doing good on my body too.
5: he asks questions and genuinally wants to talk and listen. We sit and talk for a couple of hours at a time. He's so nice.
6: I was getting off work at the coffee shop and asked if he wanted me to bring him a coffee on my way home. (I bring drinks to a lot of teachers. I try to be nice and friendly to everyone) he said he'd love one.
7:I do t have many friends and they're mostly busy when I want to hang out. He offered me to hit him up when I want to go in a hike.
So... Like I said, I'm not looking for a realtiinship, I just want to have some fun. What should I do?