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Matched with a guy on a dating app.. He was sweet (would overexplain himself to me) and engaging in his initial messages before asking me out. I couldn't commit as I'll be away for work for a while. Asked if I should contact him when I get back? He said it's a pity and I should definitely do that. I asked him for his number (thought it'd convey that I'm truly keen) which he replied 'xxxxxx, text me on whatsapp 😊'

Did he tell me that as he wasn't too keen on me or afraid I'd bug him with calls lol? Thought WA would be the universal norm in a phase like this..

Hey, so about two months ago I started texting this guy, he had a girlfriend at the time but we were just friends. His girlfriend broke up with him and about a week later we got close. He said he found me attractive even when he was with his girlfriend. His girlfriend found out about us and wanted him back. He choose me and she kept on asking him to get back with her. He changed his mind a couple of times when we were seeing each other but we were never official because he said he never wanted to commit and was afraid he was going to hurt me. At a party he got with his girlfriend but the next day h said he wanted me and he liked me so much. He said that she was out of his life now. The next day we had a fight and he said I was just gonna be like her and he didn’t want it. We made up but a few days later he told me to gw other guys and to lose my feelings for him. I found out from someone else that they were together that day. He wasn't even going to tell me that they were back together. I confronted him about it he blocked me on everything. He said they constantly fought when they were together. I see both of them everyday and they don’t seem too happy.

Okay so my sister, mom, and I were were talking about my sister M and her upcoming baby that should be born at some point in December. My sister M has Intermittent explosive disorder IED for short and it’s basically her exploding in fits of rage over the smallest of things, to the point where she wouldn’t think twice of hitting our mom who is 67 or breaking and damaging our house and threatening to commit suicide with a knife while pregnant and it got to the point where we had to call the cops on her.

Anyway I was telling them my concerns of her having the child or even letting her keep her because I’m afraid that the baby would do something that she wouldn’t like and she end up hurting or do something worse.

We’re all foster so we’re not related by blood and I was saying why not the child go into a foster care Home? Even have us take her in as her foster care family?

But both my mom and my sister both argued that there’s more bad foster homes than good ones but I feel like that’s not true.

What do you guys think? Do you think there’s more bad than good foster homes?