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This co-worker has been trying to date me for at least 2 years, but I always turned him down, because there was something about him that gave me a bad creepy vibe.

He was friendly at work & always said he loved how he could just talk to me, sex was never a topic. Sometimes I would give him a friendly hug but there was never a lot of physical touching between us.

One day after an event at work, he asked could he comeover to hang out, him & his girlfriend was going through a break up. I hesitated but then I was like sure ok.

Barely 10 minutes later, he was already leaning in trying to kiss me. This was then followed by him trying to take off my clothes & telling me how lonely he was & begging me to sleep with him. I told him no, but he wouldn't stop. My pants were off & he started giving me oral. Everything just happened so fast, I gave in & slept with him. He spent the night & was under the impression that we were about to start a relationship & I'm just sitting there like what the fuck just happened?

I stopped interacting with him, he eventually did apologize for his behavior that night, but I don't feel comfortable around him. I'm not naive, I've had guys spend the night with me & nothing happened or if we were making out & I told he no, he would stop.

I'm not looking for pity, just trying to make sense of it all.

Im too sure down there and have stitches from the birth as forceps were used. My hubby says he feels rejected and unloved, my doctor says I shouldn't have sex for at keast a few months when I told my husband this he flipply asked "what did your dentist say?" He explained that I should be giving him oral. But im so tired looking after the baby. Am i being unfair to my husband?