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Search Results: being guarded
Should citizens be allowed to help police during a shootout?
let's say you're walking down the street and you witness a police chase and end up being in the cross fire. two armed low lifes are using their cars as cover and shooting at police. these criminals have just kidnapped...
Anonymous
(36-45) Are Asian American hate crimes not taken as seriously as they should be?
just saw a video of a 60 year old something woman, who is Asian American, being beaten to the ground- kicked and punched in the face outside a store and the security guard just watched before he shut the door on the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do I get profiled in shops because I’m rich or because I’m indigenous British?
Every shop I enter the security guard who’s usually an immigrant vigorously searches my bag before leaving even if the alarm doesn’t accidentally go off because another immigrant accidentally forgets to remove all tags,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Debunking the “HEMA fanatic” biased analysis of Samurai vs Vikings
The “Historical European Martial Arts”(HEMA) community has been around for a few decades, it has only risen in popularity within the last decade. The concept is good as it is meant to rediscover and preserve traditional...
Can you win over a man’s heart if he was initially on the fence about you?
Like I’m not saying he wasn’t interested and rejected me. I mean he wasn’t serious about me for his own personal reasons. Like he was just apprehensive due to past hurt and is more guarded now. So initially seeing me he...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why are females "NICER" to me once they see how I want nothing to do with them?
I'm an unattractive guy & most females feel either scared, or disgusted around me or a combination of both They don't trust anything I do or say & think I have ulterior motives to everything I say & do All those...
Anonymous
(30-35) Was my crush being jealous?
We flirt so much together and he’s always made silly comments when he’s seen me talking with a guy like “there’s something going on between you two” or “why don’t you get a room” I was talking to him today and he...
Buggington93
Xper 5 Age: 32 Was my crush being jealous?
We flirt so much together and he’s always made silly comments when he’s seen me talking with a guy like “there’s something going on between you two” or “why don’t you get a room” I was talking to him today and he...
Abbielouise07
Xper 6 Age: 32 What are current actions that are a direct result of something "traumatic" happening in previous relationship?
Eg Being guarded, not investing emotionally, etc? What does it mean to “carry baggage”? What does it mean to be “damaged goods”? What about yourself do you protect?
Anonymous
(25-29) She’s suddenly being guarded around me?
I met this girl through a friend at a party and we had chemistry straight away and we got to know each other better as we hung out over the next few weeks and it was great but she’s been acting guarded around me and not...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I stop being paranoid about being ghosted?
So I have been talking to this guy from a dating app for about a month now. I had recently been ghosted/faded on by men in the past after a couple good conversations and dates. The guy I have been talking to has been...
TXangel2911
Xper 4 Age: 26 Should I trust her, or is she's just trying to screw me over?
Is she really being a beneficial presence and a possibly trustworthy friend like I'm considering her to be, or is she softening and weakening me to hit when my guard is low? Still, I keep having the nagging doubt....
Can being unattractive cause many woman to feel tense, agitated,& on their guard when around you?
I don't talk to anybody & don't try to associate myself with anything or anyone I just "do me" but I've noticed that just my presence a lot of females do get tense, agitated,& on guard when I'm about my business
Bored97
Yoda Age: 30 Are my parents being toxic to me?
I’m 25 and I am dating here and there I met this nice Christian guy that I just started seeing I’m proceeding with caution to guard my heart because of my past relationship hurts. My parents keep telling me every time I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Confusion over whether we're dating or just friends with benefits. Your thoughts?
I realize this is a stupid question but I'm new to all of this, so please forgive me. So I've (22F) never really had anybody interested in me before meeting this guy (23M) back around September. We got along and just hung...
Anonymous
(25-29) Like is there a problem with me protecting myself and keeping my sanity safe?
So, I'm going to get straight to my point, and try to make this, as short as possible. But, I noticed the different relationships and connections that I have had with particular people. I have had people tell me, that I...
Erica686
Xper 5 Age: 34 Am I a hater because I feel a bit discomfort seeing how social media seems like a "hall of fame" in the present?
I think I'll turn off my social media accounts, I've noticed I feel very thrown off and a bit "judgmental" every time I see people posting their successes. Thing is, the same people I see posting I know they have a lot of...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to get guys to understand that I've never dated anyone before?
I have never been in a relationship before. I'm 25 and I am pretty (what I have been told). I'm not being full of myself or anything. Growing up I was never allowed to date mostly because my dad was very over protective...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is he playing with me or is he actually interested? Any advice?
I recently met a guy about 2 weeks ago and couple days. He would always FaceTime me every night and we would have fun conversations. He told me he liked me and I would like to lead this to a relationship. He asked me how...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, Why would a guy ask this?
I was recently broken up with. Due to the pandemic, the relationship had recently had to go long distance (but temporarily, we're talking 4-6 weeks). I noticed that he had been distant from me for about a week before he...
Anonymous
(25-29) 