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So after elementary school I went my separate way going to another high school then all of my friends (guy or girl). I lost all connection with them and I made no effort to make a connection back. After three years some fortunate events came my way. My mother goes to a grocery store, that one of my old friends works at. My mother always comes home and says "Oh (Name) asked about you again. She says hi". So i found it kinda nice to hear from her again. But everytime my mom goes to the store, most of the times this girl asks about me (mom goes pretty much every week). She also rememebrs some minor details about me and asks how I have been doing latley.

My question is should I try and make the effort to go and see/talk to her. I will be honest, she has gotten pretty attractive over the years I haven't seen her face to face (seen her through instagram). I personally think, she would be surprised to see my changes (height, new glasses since elementary, packed on muscle etc) and maybe she might look at me as dating potential. In elementary school I was immature, where as now I am much much more mature and she might see my good qualities I have developed over high school.

So my plan is, I want to go and see her, ask for her number saying "It's been so long, we should catch up for all these years". After talking for a couple weeks, I wanna make an arrangment to get together with her and her high school friends (my old elementary school female friends) and some of my school friends (all boys school) and play some bubble soccer. I'm looking at this oportunity to get catch up with old friends, but if the dating opportunity comes, I may take it. What do you guys think?

Thanks in advance :)

Well, early days for us.. But she had sex with her best friend ( male ) a while back even though it didn't work (before I knew her).
I can't help thinking of the two of them together, maybe it's me being childish, but it is stuck in my head and I can't help it, even though neither of them did anything wrong...
Is it legitimate to back off completely for this reason?
It gives me anxiety..

when it comes to dating/relationship standards?

More open-minded as in not having to much of a racial and age restriction.

In my experience, most Latina/Hispanic women wouldn't mind dating younger or older men (as long as the younger guy isn't a minor or the younger guy is too far apart from her in age difference or the older man isn't old enough to be her father). They also don't mind dating within their own ethnic group or outside. That's how my experience is with them.

I never got any in high school and I started getting into bodybuilding after and my body looks amazing four years later. I want to enhance myself in every way possible to become a man dime in my mid twenties. I'm a college grad making good money now at 25 years old. I'm bored though I want to travel have endless sex with amazing women. I want to get a face lift get some fillers to make my skin look like it has zero flaws at all. (600-800$) will last aproximatley 9 months. I want to get rhinoplasty ($5,200). I also want to get on a minor dosage of testerone to really make my physique look even better. I missed out on my youth because of school studies and now I have any money drive a nice car but want more. I'm sick of dating mediocere girls looking for marriage.

I guess you can say this sounds extremely vain but I feel I am only going to be young once. The only possible down side to this would be that I'm blowing around $7500. The rhinoplasty nose job is something I've always wanted to do. The fillers will just enchance and make my skin look godlike which is only temporary. The anabolic steoirds is a minor dosage under a doctos supervision so no I don't see anything going south. I'd like to spend two years travelings and becoming a hit in instagram just looking like eye candy having sex with amazing top tier women.

I got the nice car.. education.. money.. the body.. I've worked hard for all. I just want to simply enhance myself for the next couple years to experience a lavish lifestyle. Again you're are only young once. I want to milk the last of my youth before I settle down.

I don't mean to accuse all girls of being gold diggers, that isn't what I mean. My quesiton is this, I have a lower income job, but it is in a sector I enjoy. I am interested in the environment and conservation and work in this field (no pun intended) This line of work is low paid when compared to people who work in IT for example but it is what I enjoy doing (being outside, preserving habitats etc. I actually work with deer too)

However as I get older (I'm currently 22) I'm starting to reconsider my career choice, I know it's very early days still and I have lots of time, but I'm considering going to university to study phsycology (I'm also interested in learning to help people with depression etc) As this does interest me and the jobs are higher paid.

Would the fact that I currently have a lower paid job mean I'm not really worth getting into a relationship with, I don't mean casual dating, but something more long term. I can fake confidence quite well, but I do have minor self esteem issues, I've been single all my life, but I've been told I'm good looking and funny by girls. So I'm now just assessing all aspects of my life and making changes to make myself happier (having been single all my life I get pretty depressed about it sometimes so I try to distract myself) It's just something that I've been thinking about, the line of work I'm in currently is enjoyable, but I will never be able to earn a 'lot'.

Thanks for your opinions, hopfully that made sense haha.

Every relationship is different, of course, and the personalities of the partners will have some effect on your answer, but. . . assume that you have been dating a guy for 2 1/2 months. During that time, you (not both of you) bought a house and he helped you pack and move from your previous home, helped with cleaning the previous home to return to the landlord's control, and then he helped you unpack and he settled you into your new home. He has gone out of his way to be extremely helpful to you. You have gone to concerts together, dinner together, and he has prepared dinner for you. He has met your adult son and the two of them get along well. He has met a few of your friends and they like him.

You know that he is "crazy" about you. He has told you that he adores you and you know that the two of you are compatible in many ways. You have some minor differences in beliefs and lifestyles but those are treated with respect.

He is a monogamous dater and he hasn't dated anyone else since your first date. You have not dated anyione else, either. You have had a few first dates but have not been in a relationship for the past 2 years. He and his ex were married for 4 years, separated 8 months ago, and amicably divorced 5 months ago. He had one contact with his ex snce then, when he discovered that he had a few of her possessions, but he told you about that before he contacted her, and it was all handled by email and text.

He expressed his desire for you earlier but you weren't ready, so he patiently waited. One week ago, you made love for the first time and it was very enjoyable for both of you; it was making love and not just having sex. He has seen you without makeup, in your grubbiest clothes, and he frequently tells you how cute you are. In the 2 1/2 month you have been dating, you have not had one angry word between the two of you. You talk on the phone every day and see each other about four times per week. You have already talked about taking a trip to Europe together next year.

If he came to you now and told you that he has fallen in love with you, how would you react?