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My boyfriend is becoming more of an alcoholic every single day. I have asked him several times to slow down even stop he tells me yes and yet he continues to stay out all night and drink. He came home today at 1:30 in the morning drunk after promising he wouldn't. I can't trust him to stay sober and i dont know if i can handle it anymore. what should i do?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 and a half years now
But 1 month ago we broke up because he got fed up with my trust issues and accusing him of cheating/flirting with other women
he's never cheated on me but my ex boyfriend did so i still have trust issues
But 2 weeks later, he called me and wanted to get back together again and I apologized to him
So we got back together

Anyway so I know his passwords to everything
His phone, tablet, laptop, email, etc
I went on his phone messages last night (I know its bad but I wanted to know if he was seeing other girls during breakup)
I didn't find anything (as in he didn't add any girls or went to see another girl)
But I did find something
- he messaged his best friend and he sent a photo of this girl and he said to him "im talking to this hot chick, gonna be my new girlfriend, easy bro😂"

I got pissed
And confronted my boyfriend
And he said "yeah I went on dating app to get my mind off you, was talking to girls on it, added them on instagram. I talked to her but she got weird and started asking me dumb questions so I blocked her. You can check my instagram block list. I dont care. And plus I saw you on it too so I got more pissed and talked to more girls. But i didn't go see them"
And he showed me his block list and he did block that girl
And i said "if u want her or other girls, why come back to me?"
Then he replied "isnt it obvious? I still have feelings for you and I felt weird talking to those other girls anyway"

So my boyfriend has been acting weird lately with his phone. We used to use eachothers phone and look and snoop with no problems.
All of a sudden he's been so weird about it.
EXAMPLE:
Me "can i show you something on google. My phone is in my room can i show you?"
Him GO GET YOUR PHONE
me wtf whats wrong with you
him I DONT GO THROUGH YOUR PHONE ANYMORE SO DONT GO THROUGH MINE
me chill wtf i was just gonna use your google
Him MY LAPTOP MY PHONE AND MY CAR DONT GO THROUGH THEM THEY ARE MINE
Me wtf you let me use your car and laptop all the time whats wrong with you? Your making me suspicious
Him WHAT YOUR SUPPOSED TO TRUST ME HOW CAN YOU NOT
me i was just gonna use your google

So basically this has happened like three times. I don't know wtf is going on. We have dated for 2 years. First of all we used to go through eatchothers phones all the time. It wasn't a problem then. Im not saying it is ok to go through eachothers phones i was never interested in it until now when he's acting weird. Before it was mainly him going through my texts and stuff i would just look at his gallery most of the times and now i can't even use his phone for google while he's next to me. 🤨 i dont want to but i feel like taking his phone and actually going through it. Just cus he's acting so weird and if i mention how suspicious he is being he goes crazy and says im supposed to trust him. But how can i not be suspicious when he's yelling at me and glued to his phone 24/7.