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I let my ex boyfriend borrow 20K for his rent, 5K for his medial check up, restaurant bills which I forgot to count many times, shipping tickets that cost 4K, hotels and etc. which I believe would cost more or less 50K in total

my ex boyfriend has asked me to loan before for a motorbike. I don’t want to but he forced me promising he’s gonna pay monthly. but my family knew about it so they stolen the motorbike and sell it for 42K. Now I am keeping the money.

I dropped everything for my boyfriend to stay with him which I believe I spent more a lot. I sacrificed a lot of things but He only cheated me with another woman. Who he boast to me who has more money and can meet his needs. And now, my best friend is gone, my stable work is gone, my health sucks of std, my body becomes thin.

what shall I do should I return the money or not?

When I first met him, he was very charming and aggressive with sex. During our relationship, I still saw him chatting other girls but I trusted him when he said they are just friends.

When we stayed together, he is so demanding like I have to pay half for the rent and electricity if not he will get mad at me insulting me with “Irresponsible.” He was also asking me to have a bank loan for him to make business but I was afraid and said no and so He insulted me again with “Useless.” Until, he talk to other girls and I begin to question him again, he said he is looking for an investor in order to make business. He is so desperate to have a business. He once said I found 3 girls and I will use them to loan To make business.

He is a big smoker and sometimes doesn’t care if I am around. He drink alcohol a lot and even cheated behind my back when I am in office he sleeps with other girls at home.

He doesn’t really care about me. He get offended if I don’t grocery or buy him food. But he never ask if I eat after work or if he wants me to get from office. Sometimes he did but only to give money for his fuel and even buy some cigarettes.

Until I become empty like I have nothing to offer to him. He left me for another girl and said I can’t take care of his needs.
how come he did this to me like he is a heartless human?