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Long story short, we dated for two months during high school. He wasn't a very good boyfriend, he spent more time playing video games than spend time with me. He's the one who ended the relationship and decided to go after some girl he played Halo with online. I got over him and since then have been with a wonderful guy for the past two and a half years.

Shortly after my ex broke up with his girlfriend he messaged me saying he was sorry, he made a terrible mistake, he loves me, etc. I'm too nice for my own good and I responded saying it was nice of him to say that but I've since met the man I'm planning on spending the rest of my life with and pretty much, he's a day late and a dollar short.

He understood and said he was happy I'm happy but he kept saying I'm the one for him and he would wait for me. No matter how much I told him not to, to find another girl and be happy, he
wouldn't listen. Eventually it got to the point he wrote a status on Facebook that I knew was about me and I blocked him because I couldn't take his stubbornness anymore.

Since then I think he got a new girlfriend for a while thankfully, but I was going through my emails today and saw he found my second Facebook account I made while my first was hacked a while back and not only did he send me a friend request but he messaged me too.

I'm too nice for my own good and I thought about unblocking him and making it clear (again) that I'm happy now and I would only want to be friends with him but at the same time I don't know if he's gonna bombard me with his "I'll wait"'s and everything else which I don't want to deal with again.

thoughts anyone? Thank you!

I met this guy online as he was returning from a five-month trip through Asia. We were very open about our partners, history from the start. He "collected" flags during his trip, and got close to one girl in particular but told me, how it was just a fling and nothing more so I didn't bother asking more. We connected so well, and even better in person that I just assumed that she was out of the picture, and that we were both focusing on us fully.

Fast forward to today, we've been dating for a month and half now, and he's still in touch with this girl from his trip. They don't message daily, but definitely stay in touch through Facebook messenger. I know in his mind, he thinks he's not cheating. But she likes to reminiscence about the "good times" they had, and how much she'd like to meet up with him, and even try to get him to Skype her (just once so far) ~ and even sent him a sexy pic. His response overall has been agreement > he said yes to Skype, and responded with the heart-eyes emoji to her sexy bikini pic. I feel like she offers him a different quality that we don't have yet in our relationship, a kind of emotional connection that takes sometime to build. I just don't get how they have it in two weeks, while we've been together for a month and it's just starting to form.

I'm not really sure how to deal with this. Part of me, wants him to just stop talking to her, but I feel bad expecting him to drop a person who really does seem like a nice person (she is!). I just wish he would make his relationship status clear with her, at least that way, I'd know whether she could just be friends with him, or if her intentions really are different. I don't want to inhibit my boyfriend unfairly, but I want to be able to build a strong foundation for a relationship with him. However, knowing that this girl is in the background makes it really difficult for me to be relaxed, and not be "fake happy". Please help! I want to fix this, not break it! I really do like him :(