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I feel like my girlfriend is racist. Here is some stuff she has said. (These are not in order of time).
1. "Hispanic people are lazy. They just want free stuff and that's why they cross over illegally."
2. "I don't think they (she means Hispanics) should be allowed to speak Spanish. Why do you come here and not learn English? Like... Are you stupid?"
3. "Black people are literally the biggest cry babies. We lock mexican women and children in cages and they don't cry about it like they do."
4. "OMG. Does she have corona virus (there was an Asian female walking)?" She said this while inside of our car waiting for traffic of people to pass by at the mall.
-she has said worse but like this is some stuff she has said.

Anyway, my girlfriend is racist as hell. She is so mean in terms of this but to me, she is very nice. She is a very good girlfriend. Like extremely faithful and kind. We've been together for 3 years and this racism thing barely came out after the riots but more specifically, when corona happened. It started with Chinese people but she like worked her way up to everyone else. She just started bashing on everyone. It was like a domino effect because I let her do this and didn't get mad at her the first times. This is said in private. One on one. Never in groups or public.

There are many types of love, we can love romantically, or love our family and friends, etc..

You can read about them here.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/hide-and-seek/201606/these-are-the-7-types-love

There's no way around us humans being social beings, and part of being social, is being heard, accepted, feeling valued and connected. It's a depth of feeling of oneness Unconditionally loved. Someone else has your best interests in mind and won't hurt you. This is what parents are supposed to build up in their children, and good friends and our partner are to be.

I hear the cries... what we are trained to value is wealth...money, and power! That's the worlds message to you because of the fear it places upon you that if you don't have it, you will suffer. You can't buy love with it, only experience. It creates even more problems as the risk of losing wealth creates bad feelings like fear, guilt, murder, anger, spite. If you've ever had wealth and lost it, you know how terrible it feels. But losing a loved one forever, that is the worst. The separation from love is terrible and at that point, money loses it's meaning. Money is really... nothing, only useful in time. Love is eternal, so it feels!

With the "race" tensions projected into our country, there may be cries of "respect", value me. To me, those are components of love. In other words, listen to me... hear me, value me, and stop killing and oppressing me. Love me!

Isn't love what you really seek in life beyond the physical necessities to exist? Check deep inside? Love of your mother or father. Love of your family members. Love of a mate. Love of your friends? What does your heart say?