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What does it mean when a guy calls you by your last name?

Is he flirting/playing with you or is it his way of saying "you are and will always be just a friend - friend zone"?

I emailed a guy friend of mine and started it with "Hey hon" - my email was not romantic or leading in anyway. He responded to my email with addressing me by my last name, stating some fact and signing it. It just surprised me that he addressed me by my last name. I felt it was cold and maybe setting the tone that I shouldn't have addressed him as "hon"?

I didn't mean anything by the "hon" but I don't know if I may have freaked him out by addressing my email to him like that. He isn't a very close friend so maybe he thought it was romantic and wanted to let me know not to get any ideas?

Guys, what do you think?

i was friends with this guy back in september - february. we had just met in september, so we weren't that close. he seemed like he liked me romantically and we'd flirt a little and text back and forth, but then he stopped talking to me mid-feb after standing me up for a movie. we'd see each other in the street and he'd put his head down and keep walking. he did it til the end of our spring semester. I was confused and hurt by it and tried talking to him, but he wouldn't return text or calls. he signed off when I tried IMing him too, so I sent him an email telling him it was kinda messed up what he was doing and that if he had a problem, he should just tell me rather than confusing me. I said he was being strange and I didn't like it, but if that how it was, then fine.

he actually wrote back, said that he WAS strange and that he 'probably actually never' sees me. he apologized for standing me up because he said he thought things fell through for some reason and that he's sorry. he told me he was going to say hi once, but doesn't remember what happened.

i wrote back and told him I was still confused, but I guess there's no problem, and that I thought he was bullsh*tting about never seeing me, but whatever. he never wrote again after that and it's been two weeks. I don't feel like having him all over my fb page anymore. those damn mini feeds are torturing me, haha. I want to delete him. he's not even talking to me and it's still going to be awkward if we see each other in the fall, so what's the difference? should I delete him?

can you take a moment to explain your answer? thank you!