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Okay quick back story. Me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 19 months. In September I ended things, so he started dating a family friend to try and get over me. I only found out about her because someone accidentally posted them together and I saw it before they deleted it. She has PURPLE HAIR *important* We forgave each other but back in Nov and Dec we broke up again, but bc he wanted this girl back. They dated some more before he realized he didn’t love her and again, we got back together. We have been dating steadily since January 10th. We also live together.

Well back in February I was doing his laundry and I saw a few purple hairs on a shirt. I got extremely upset and he told me that the shirt I found the hairs on hasn’t been watched since December bc he doesn’t even like the shirt so to please not make a big deal. Fine, I got over it bc I have shirts in my hamper from Christmas too.

Today we were spending the day at his Dad’s house and he asked me if I could do another round of laundry for him. I agreed and found a white t-shirt with lipstick and more purple hairs on it. I confronted him and he said the same excuse. He hasn’t washed these clothes in months, that they’ve been at his fathers house since December. But this time, I don’t believe him. The shirt was at the top of the bag and he was just at his fathers house last week while I was away for work. You’re telling me that a whole week at your fathers and you didn’t put any other dirty clothes in this bin?

I wanna believe he’s been faithful because we are always together but I don't know a shirt from December at the top of a laundry bag?

I found my boyfriend of 2 years has been cheating on me for 4 months today through his lover. So my boyfriend went for work placement abroad for 1 year and 7 months ago he met this girl at work and began flirting with her and asking her out but she said no because she knew about me. However, 4 months ago they began dating and having sex 4-5 times a week, he would stay at her place and also when they had sex he would finish in her because apparently she was trying to get pregnant from him. He also bought her some gifts and took her out to expensive restaurants. He returned home due to the virus, but he has been in contact with her for the past 2 weeks until she broke up with him and realised she passed him chlamydia. I am totally devastated I don’t know what to do, he claims he’s been having an affair with her due to the long distance but then why have sex with her and finish inside her, trying to get her pregnant? He keeps telling me it was purely sexual, but the girls also met his mother through FaceTime couple of times and he introduced her to his mum. He said he will never get back with her, but he’s due to return to the UK for work once the virus is over. I feel absolutely devastated and I don’t know if I should forgive him... while he was away he contacted me every single day and called me but I realised he went cold since he met her... what shall I do?