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My ex boyfriend of 13 months still wants to see me and has me sleeping over at his house and was begging me to come back and saying he misses me tons and that he loves me and that I’m beautiful. We had broken up back in June cuz he felt like I didn’t appreciate him - but he knows I do care for him tons cuz I always show him, and a day later he was with another woman making out with her and he goes on dates with her on the weekends...

he was telling me that this woman can be very hurtful and mean and she has an angry temper... she has also publically humiliated him and said lies that weren’t true as well... there are also trust issues between them. He also doesn’t feel comfy to tell her his deep dark secrets (that he was in jail before) that I know. This woman also says stuff to make him look like a bad guy and that he apparently said rotten things about me which weren’t true... she’s also very public while he is very private.

He tells me he doesn’t love this woman only cares for her and that it’s me that he has more history with and that I have qualities/ character traits that she doesn’t have : kindness, caring, patience, honest, loyal, etc... he also says it’s me that he wants a future with but he’s torn cuz of past misunderstandings that we had- his mom and my mom getting involved, etc...

we hugged all nite in bed and he muttered under his breAth in his sleep that he loves me more than I know and he had his arms around me all nite long and kissed my neck in his sleep also... he also got me a meaning full birthday gift which means something to me cuz it’s a 🧜🏻‍♀️ mermaid and he knows that’s my fave Disney film. He also hugs me very tightly and always helps me out.. he begs me to come over and to spend time together as well...

is this other woman a rebound? Does he want me back you think and is he regretting the break that we took?

ps this woman is the total opposite of me- an angry bitch and a goth..., I’m the sweet sensitive girly type

My ex boyfriend and I were together for a whole year and living together. We had a few arguments during the month of June and he went on a date with a girl on June 28th and we had a fight about it and we broke up.
Me and him were getting serious and talking about future plans for us and his mom even taught me about the Jewish holidays and invited me over for Passover and treated me to a manicure...

Now 4 weeks later they are saying they love each other and that he’s very crazy about her... she’s the total opposite of me - gothic punk aggressive type and I’m a sweet sensitive girly type... he’s a classy guy who wears suits and likes to dress up...
they talk openly on Facebook and he talks lovey dovey with her in the open... he’s a private person and none of his dates/ relations were ever out in the open...
he tells me he still loves me and wants to work stuff out between us yet he’s also dating this chic

is he in a rebound? Is this an infatuation? Or is he really in love with her?

Me and my ex were together for just over a year and practically living together. We did a lot together - he helped me lose weight, get my drivers licence, and came with me to doctors appointments. We did a lot of firsts together and had/ have a great connection.
He went to jail for 3 months and I waited for him and he was appreciative and happy and was calling me everyday telling me he loves me and was talking about making future plans - we were getting serious and his mom even invited me over for Jewish Passover holiday. Now during the month of June we had quite a few fights over stupid stuff like what I should wear when we go out, my diet and I was also getting irritated when he was on his phone a lot and he was getting overly sensitive anytime I wanted to go back to my house for 3 days and then come back to him. He was scared of me leaving him and he also felt unappreciated , but I always showed him I cared for him - like going to the hospital everyday when he had surgery. Now he starts dating someone who is totally the opposite of me exactly 2 days after we broke up and after 3 weeks they are saying “I love you” to each other. But he says he still wants to work stufff out & possibly get back together. He still kisses me and has me sleeping over at his place during the week and only sees this girl on weekends, but he tells me he doesn’t have history with her like he does with me... and says he needs time and doesn’t prefer her over me right now and that it depends on me and doesn’t know what he wants to do. She’s a dark gothic girl and he’s a classy type of a guy who wears suits and likes to be well dressed and she’s way taller than him and is the total opposite of me - I’m sweet and sensitive, she’s the psycho angry aggressive type and dresses like a punk rocker - totally different from me!
Also it moved very quick - after 3 or 4 weeks saying that they are in love?
Is he in a rebound relationship? And is there a chance for me and him to be back together?

So me and my ex boyfriend have been together for 1year. We have both always been there for each other - doctors appointments, his surgery, he also helped me lose weight and get my drivers license. Occasionally we were having small stupid disagreements like about what I should wear, drama with his friends- he has always kept our relationship private. He was also in jail for 3 months. he was talking to me everyday saying how much he loves me and misses me and was talking to me about future plans. i was also visiting his parents house and him in jail. he knows I’m loyal to him and would never cheat on him.
Now as soon as he came out of jail, he began to act a bit differently: we were fighting more often (about what I should be wearing, my diet, and finances. 4 weeks ago he began talking to a mutual friend of ours whom recently broke up with her ex. I stayed home then he went out. So I was online after and suddenly this female tells me that she’s on a date with my man. I freaked out and was phoning her and my boyfriend then he separated with me cuz of that, yet he still has me staying over at his house cuz he wants to potentially fix things between us. He also tells me that he’s using her to show her off to our group of friends cuz he doesn’t want people to suspect that me and him were/are ever together cuz he was away for 3 months. Yet he talks to her everyday and is having sex with her and stays overnight with her on weeeknds... and he's with me during the week... he also says he doesn’t have those kinds of feelings for her and that she’s too tall for him. Now he also tells me that he prefers her in the sense that she listens to his fashion advice whereas I don’t always and she also cools him off when he’s hot whereas I don’t... he says it hurts him how someone whom he's not in love with does these things and I the girl he loves me, doesn’t... he also tells me that he would end things sooner than later with her if I show him improovements and be a “good girl”