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Hello guys I am new to this website but I will be on here a ton looks like a lot of nice people on here.. But here's my story.

I met this girl off Facebook bout a 2 months ago we had a lot of friends in common and after previous months of attempting to contact her I finally got her number (she was never online). I got her number and text but the texting was HORRIBLE very slow and she never really replied. I kind of expected that because to her I was just some guy off the internet trying to holler. But I continued talking and told her I found her interested and would like to get to know her more, she told me she was currently talking to someone one at the time and that she didn't see me that way. So bam I'm like ok she doesn't like me. But 2 weeks ago she hit me up asked me if i wanted to have dinner with her and i said sure, we met up and had a great time and talked for bout 2-3 hours. The very next day she was calling me texting me, face timing me everything and there was a whole different feeling of how we communicated it was different over night, we even went to the movie theater 2 days after the dinner. I thought she had a change of heart but she still was calling me "Friend", and I learned the hard way when i attempted to hold her hand she smiled and didn't let me, but eventually later on she allowed me too and even gave me a kiss on the lips but my dumbass asked for one. After all this she still saids she doesn't see me that way and she is still seeing this other guy. The only thing is she is calling in texting me so much that I don't even see how she has time to talk to him. Is she using me for attention or to feel the spaces that this other guy lacks? She said recently that him and her will probably be done soon. When I ask her about us she just said "you shouldn't force nothing, just let things happen, right now i don't see you that way but i can't tell for the future" What is going on? Please tell me this situation because i am unfamiliar with it