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Use anonymous if you like and tell us why you are having an affair.

Is it lust, is it a bad relationship, is it abuse causing you to do it, is it because the deep emotional connection that you once had is gone, is it better sex?

Are you receiving the emotional connection you want if you are female, or if you are male, is it just the sex that you are getting out of it that you feel that you have to have?

Do you know anyone that has been involved in an affair? ... why did they do it?

I hate to admit it, but I have a girlfriend that has affairs behind her boyfriend's back with both guys and bi or lesbian girls. I hate that she does that and have told her that she is wrong to do this to her boyfriend. I think he knows she is doing it, but just tries to ignore it. I can not figure it out.

Share your story with us... PLEASE!

More survey choices I didn't have room for:

H. An ex that broke up with you, that you never wanted to break up with, says they want you back. At first you resist, but you find your resistance level lower until you embrace them once again

I. You run across someone that you have dreamed of all your life that is so hot that you just can't resist having an affair with them

Maybe you know of others. Please share the examples you know of with us or tell us of your real life experiences... PLEASE!

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2. The Challenge (MTV) brings different reality shows casts together to compete for money

3. Watchmen (HBO) is like Stranger Things but has masked cops hunting a white nationalist group

4. Batwoman (CW) is basically revealed early on and the first ep sucks but it gets better

5. All American (CW) is a good football drama. Reminds me of Degrassi but with better graphics/acting

6. Black Lightning (CW) was kinda never heard of until the show. I quit the last half of last season but am back and its good so far

7. The Flash (CW) is going downhill since the show focuses more on his team than himself but im back for the crisis

8. His Darker Materials (HBO) is like a slow boring version of Narnia but based on The Golden Compass

9. You (Netflix) is a good obsessive, stalkerish murderous romantic drama

10. Masked Singer (FOX) annoys me because the judges guesses are ridic but the dancing/singing is entertaining

11. The Oval (BET) is stars an adulterous President, psycho first lady, bratty daughter, incestual son, closeted bodyguards, and a cult-leading baby mama

12. Temptation Island (USA) has couples cheating on eachother as a way to “grow” their relationship

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14. Big Brother/Celeb Big Brother (CBS) locks conservatives/liberals in a house for 3 months and production stirs up drama

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16. Growing Up Hip Hop (WeTV) is basically LHH but with hasbeen music artists and their kids

17. Grownish (FreeForm) is a sitcom and reminds me of Friends/Degrassi/Different World

18. Snowfall is like Power/Ray Donavan with a bigger focus on the selling of cocaine

19. Animal Kingdom is like Point Break with mamas boys

20. RHOA

We have been 1 year in a relationship with my foreign boyfriend. I used to visit him every week in the house that he and his foreign friend rented (they split bills). My family doesn't like my boyfriend and threatened him to kill. My boyfriend run away to another city and due to fear his friend left the house too.

In July, we were apart from my boyfriend and he blamed me I was destroying his life. He said he is going to find one rich girl to live together who won't bring him to trouble. I did not talk to my boyfriend for 2 weeks. Suddenly, On August, I was surprised he came back and was looking for me. He asked to stay together so fast in a new house and immediately transfer his things including car, big tv, other expensive things. During these months, my boyfriend is cold to me and rejected me many times of sex. I also caught him having so many condoms on his bag. One day, I saw a girl who keeps calling him every morning, afternoon, evening, I wonder why he doesn't take the calls and suddenly this girl text him, "Babe, how are you doing? and he named that girl as "Dianne GF" I was shocked and get mad at him. Saying bullshit! You already have another woman. Are you cheating on me? He denied and said "No, it is just a typo error. She is just a friend and he has an old foreigner.

On September-October, he went back to the City because he said he has to earn money to pay the house. This time we split bills together. I wonder why my boyfriend just visits me once to twice a week per month. I used to call him every day but he won't take my calls. Until in November, I wonder why he didn't go home yet and was only pressuring me to pay house bills. At late 2 AM, I keep calling him nonstop, he never accepts the call just texting I'm busy, I'm playing, don't disturb. At a later time, he accepted my call and gets mad "WHAT DO YOU WANT" I made excuses that I need help in house the faucet is broken. We talk for 20 minutes with my boyfriend.