Search Results: i'm too insecure to be with

my boyfriend came over yesterday because we had a little argument the night before and he wanted to see me and talk to me in person and make up. and of course we did make up after a while. and then it was all back to normal until this happened.
i know he has female co workers in his work place and he's friends with most of them and i dont really mind about it. and plus, they are mostly old.
so anywho, he showed me pictures of them altogether and then out of nowhere he pointed at this woman - she looks about over 30ish, and she's short, chubby, and unattractive.
and then he said "you look like her"
then i blew up and got so furious. he was confused and tried to calm me down but i was too fkn mad so tried leaving but he hugged me tight and wouldn't let go.
he asked "why are u so mad? i didn't say anything wrong"
and i said "because u said i look like her. thats how you see me. you think i look old and shit. i dont look like her!"
and he said "ok no you dont look like her, ok look maybe i said it in the wrong way, didn't mean what u were thinking."
and i replied "why do u think i look like her?"
and he said "i dont know... its coz you're both short and both of you are of the same nationality"
I got so annoyed at him and stopped talking. and then he got mad at me and started saying stuff about how I was selfish and that I got mad for nothing/over little things and how im immature and insecure about myself (which is kinda true) and that he drove all the way to my place and this is what he gets.. drama from me.
but anyway, do you guys think i was in the right to get mad about it? does he think im that ugly if he thinks i look like her? what the fuck does that even mean? was he just bullshitting when he said "ok no u dont look like her, i said in wrong way, didn't mean what u were thinking"? why would he say that when he always says that im pretty and beautiful and that he loves me everyday?
im still furious about it