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I'm 24 and I only had one girlfriend. I never really got over her. I'm not a cry baby of someone that comes off as a pansy but I'm just honestly beginning to lose hope. I don't have a career. I do work as a personal trainer though. I love with roommates in a nice place. It's not that im lazy because I've attempted and failed so many things. I have a learning disability. I'm not stupid but a university setting is very difficult for me. It doesn't impact my social skills either. I'm going to school but I'm miserable. You'd never know unless I told you.

I think I'm decent looking. I have a great body. I'm a great conversationalist once you get me going but I'm introverted. I have friends but I tend to ignore them these days not even going out. I'm really just losing it and im only getting older. At night it really hits me. I think I'm a pretty badass cool person once you get to know me.

I want to get married and have kids. I want to all that stuff. I'm just getting older and losing hope. All my friends are younger than me so it's a constant reminder. Girls my age are already letting themselves go. Younger girls probably aren't interested.

My ex and I broke up about a month ago (breakup was initiated by her) and I was wondering if texting her congrats for her graduation would make her uncomfortable. We didn't have a bad relationship or a bad breakup (we were just on two different paths in life), but, we haven't talked since the breakup.

I've moved on and it's not an attempt to win her back. I've just always wanted her to succeed and loved seeing her do so.

I don't even know why I'm asking. I've considered the fact that she might not respond or she will respond with, "who is this?" as she may have deleted my number. The thought of either does not bother me. I'm asking more for her sake. I know she has moved on, but, I don't want to cause her anymore stress as she is losing a lot of friends when she moves away from college and knowing her, she is going to be very emotional for the next week or two.

I'm probably making this a bigger ordeal than it needs to be, but, I don't want to come off as creepy. It would be nothing more than, "Congrats on your graduation!".