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My humor is apparently harsh and hurtful. I feel bad.

Cuddle_Muffin

Yoda Age: 95

*****IF you didn't read all this sh*t answer these questions instead: Do you take your relationships very personal? If someone said they predict you and your other half breaking

*****IF you didn't read all this sh*t answer these questions instead: Do you take your relationships very personal? If someone said they predict you and your other half breaking up...would you be furious?*****

Well, this guy I always ask questions about..who is a friend I am barely handling with care according to how much he hates me now, is made at me for pointing out a slight fault...just from my opinion...

Well what happened was...I was hanging out with a bunch of friends today (including him), and we started talking about Valentine's day...and what everyone did with their boyfriends and girlfriends..of course I am single as always..and yesterday I was stuck home due to the fact I was sick with a 101 fever. Anyways, we got far into the convo, and he mentioned he had a girlfriend..I mean I just literally found out so I of course asked him why don't I know of this when I see him everyday..and tell him about of personal crap..anyway he said he likes his relationships closed...and he has been with her for 3 weeks...well I was happy for him..until he told me that he didn't/wasn't doing anything "special" for her on Valentine's day...So, I got into an argument with him..me and a couple of my friends told him to stfu and gtfowtbs..because even if it is only 3 weeks and she lives far from him..he should at least try to make a date or something...it is a day created for some type of appreciation for the ones he likes/loves...he clearly told me that his girlfriend wasn't needy and didn't care for anything...and he said if she didn't want anything he wasn't gonna do what she didn't want. Which is fine, but he didn't step out of the "usual" ..he treats her like a pen pal...I told him to at least make a date with her since he hasn't seen his so called girlfriend in 2 weeks. He told me he will do it when he feels like it..it is fine...I jokingly told him..."you better put in effort before she ups and dumps your far away ass for another dude..., I give it one or 2 more weeks." He turned red and got so mad ...didn't say anything to me for the rest of the day...

Honestly, I shouldn't care about his gf..but I wanted to encourage for effort..I know I don't know this girl and I don't know how she acts..but I know every girl that age who goes out with a guy wants a little bit of appreciation..especially from the guy she calls her boyfriend..he just plan treats her so "blah"...he said he calls her everyday..so what? he said it is only 3 weeks into a relationship..but the met only once since then..he lives away from her..but it is only like a 30 minute drive..I told him if this continues..they will breakup..there is really nothing going on..it is like a bother and sister thing..I have seen this happen too many times before.

(sorry I wrote so much, I'm mad he is offended..I need him in my life...without his help I will not succeed. He is like a brother in a way to me...)

*****IF you didn't read all this sh*t answer these questions instead: Do you take your relationships very personal? If someone said they predict you and your other half breaking up...would you be furious?*****

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Girl's Behavior

Taking sides in a relationship?

Before I dated him, I had a boyfriend who had a huge thing for my best friend and they dated briefly. afterward, it turned into a major mess and they just hated each other. When I started dating him she was always an...

Aririn

Xper 5 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

When will the pain go away? How come he and the other woman get to be happy?

So my ex basically left me for the other woman in November. When I say basically it's became the breakup was mutual, he'd treated me like crap for a month (the time the affair went on) and I'd had enough. But the thing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

He keeps going back to his ex... What do I do?

Ive been talking to this guy for awhile. He would tell me the problems by the way him & his girl. Well they broke up and we hung out, He asked me on a date, went to dinner and a movie. We had a great time every time we...

SMD92

Xper 5 Age: 34

Flirting

I don't understand why girls do this all the time?

why is it when girls get out of relationships because they were treated like crap, they tell you that they want to date you, which they have liked you for awhile. They tell you not until they get the problem taken care of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Do you really want someone who is an equal?

I know many people say they want someone who is an equal. But I don't know, I like the idea of a guy who is older, wiser, and mature, and more experienced in life. As long as he doesn't treat me like crap and isn't TOO...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex tried to contact me after being broken up for over 6 months, what should I do!?

I'm like so confused right now and I feel like I'm going to puke. My ex and I broke up over six months ago. It was a VERY unhealthy relationship. We started dating when I was 16 and he was 18. Things got serious really...

MAJ4251

Yoda Age: 32

Family & Friends

Boyfriends sister is crazy, advice?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. We are in a serious loving relationship. We've known each other for 2 years. Since the beginning we were close and he'd talk to me about his family. He use to tell me how...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Guys: what's the craziest thing a woman has ever done to you out of anger?

some people say some women are crazy, some say they're all crazy. some say everyone's crazy. well, I have come to believe (I'm 28) that we all have gone through at least one volatile relationship. I want to know, what...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Guys, why do you suddenly lose interest in a girl?

A lot of girls have been there. The guy they're seeing or are in a relationship with, suddenly loses interest and cuts it off. Some girls pick up on it right away, some don't see it and end up being treated badly because...

candlewax

Yoda Age: 43

Break Up & Divorce

Why does he hate me?

I've been wondering why my ex avoids me at all costs. It's the weirdest thing ever and makes me feel SO bad. Seriously, he avoids me like I'm the plague! I would understand if I was a crazy stalker, who bad-mouthed him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

The dreadful long distance relationship... Help?

I've been talking to a girl for 2 and a half years, completely over a phone. She is super shy and is afraid to meet. Well if you have been in a long distance relationship I am sure you are probably understanding to what...

Kody10

Xper 4 Age: 35

Health & Fitness

I don't think men and women are equal, what do you think?

yes, its 2011,and women claim to be equal to menbut I don't think that is true. I don't really understand how you compare the two. Intellectually ,yes men and women are equal. Men are bigger,stronger, and they think a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Do guys take women granted who treat them well?

i was having a very open conversation with a man about a recent break-up and how I felt I was taken for granted. and he said, I hate to break it to you, but if you don't get "tough" on men and are too available or too...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex best friend's little sister contacts you about stopping the friendship?

My ex best friend basically up and left, leaving everyone behind for some jerk she called me to complain about and when we went to get her back because there was rumor of abuse, she seemed fine...and this is one of many...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why are you attracted to bad boys?

This might sound like a stereotypical question, but what is it that attracts you girls to men that tend to turn you down or treat you like crap once you're in a relationship with them? And then you turn around bitchin...

Havendorf

Xper 5 Age: 37

Girl's Behavior

My husband lied about his ex, should I be concerned?

When me and my husband first met, we were talking about pasts and stuff. I was talking about my ex who was abusive but we had been discussing getting married (glad we didn't) and he said he'd been engaged to a girl he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

I am almost 19 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. Your opinion?

This never bothered me before, but lately I'm starting to look around and worry that maybe I'm far behind. Sometimes I kinda feel like I'm in basic training while everyone else is in combat. But then at the same time, it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Do guys still appreciate sweet, good girls? It seems like they just want girls who put out and cause drama.

I can't wait to give a guy all my love exceed what he imagines in a partner! I'm 18 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. That puts me in a great position because I don't have any baggage to make me paranoid or scared...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why do girls stay in crappy relationships? WTF?!

A lot of my girlfriends and people I know seem to be stuck in terrible relationships. With jerks that treat them like crap. I mean these girls are up there in looks and l know for a fact they can do much better. Yet they...

crushsodacan

Xper 5 Age: 32