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My girlfriend who lives abroad in vietnam did not talk to much to me between the months of October and December. She would be active on facebook but seldomly reply to my messages that i sent daily. She asked me to teach her french. After that time period, we started talking again more but i soon discovered a guy "liking" all of her photos. He is french. I questioned her on this man and she said it was a friend she met in the bar she works at. She often dodges and evades my questions about the matter. Everytime I ask her about him, she gets angry and says that she cannot stand my jealousy/ inquiry and suggests possibly breaking up. She says I never believe her. She then promised me she would never contact him and will block him from her profile. English is not her native language and says she cannot fully express herself. Around February , I discovered an alternate account that she had with an alternate name (japanese name at the japanese bar she works at). She allowed me to have the password to that account and I discovered other foreign men on her friends list and within her messages that she messaged that same guy that "this is my facebook". I confronted her and told her she lied about ceasing contact with him. She told me her boss told her to add him there... She restricts me from looking at her actual facebook and from meeting him. Her friends lie about never seeing her when in fact they see eachother weekly and are very close.

Does all of this sound a little fishy or am I being overly analytically jealous (as she claims)?

How bad does it affect your sense of femininity?

I'm a short guy(5'9),that likes tall girls(5'8^^). Although I'm avery unique person sexually,a lot of "normal rules" of gender.. er,stuff apply to me. But iabsolutely love being lost in my girls arms,snuggling under her Amazonian curves,or getting on my to toes to kiss the queen. Now,like isaid,ihave a unique,diverse sexuality... But Istill get my alpha manly feels when with a tall female. (Ever take a 6'4 chick out to dinner? Feeling like a boss) But most of the time(found afew girls that like it this way),it poses a problem of insecurity. "How can you protect me,if I'm bigger than you?" I've only beaten up guys twice my size. Then the comments,"Guess she's the man,huh? Haha" But honestly,how many short 5'2 girls have had their big strong 6'5 guy whipped on leash shorter than she is? Exactly. Idon't mind,iactually love it. But iguess perception Is reality.lolz

This was half rant,half question... ButIwas talking to my friend that doesn't mind short guys,but prefers tall. In fact,her man is smaller than she is. She says that to a degree,"it affects my femininity". How strong is that effect? Now,short girls are all good too,idon't judge,ihave preference. Ilove my tall girls tho,and maybe if Iunderstand More about these feelings,I can empower my short and cute little self to create a win/win with my awesome tall girl crowd.