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3 years ago we both lived in NY and we had a short affair. He was about to move to Chicago so it was clear to both it didn’t have a future. I didn’t want to do long distance. Still he wrote to me a few times afterwards, telling me that it was too bad we didn’t live closer and that sex was so good (it was). In the meanwhile we both had other relationships which ended.

We kept in touch over social media and lately, the past year, he started liking every picture I posted on Instagram etc. last year he still had a girlfriend, they broke up some 6 months ago.

I went to chicago last month and wrote to him to ask if he had any tips on what to visit. He told me unfortunately that week he would have been in California, that it was sad because he would have loved to see me again, but he proposed I stay at his apartment, as it was empty. I thanked him but didn’t accept because I had already booked the hotel and it wasn’t refundable.

Last week he posted an Instagram story from New Jersey for work, a place some 2 hours from ny. I was in Miami for work those days, but I know he goes to New Jersey every now and than and I’d be interested in seeing him again and I wrote to him “next time you got o nj you should stop by say hi in New York”.

He answered he’d love to, and that next time he will try to take a few days off and stop in New York, but than he also didn’t try to chat longer etc.

On the basis of the experiences I had these past years, i think we would be a good match and I’d be up to give it a try even if it’s long distance. But I don’t understand if he’s interested at all, or if he replied like that just out of politeness and he’s not interested, even in stopping by just for sex (because I know that if he did stop by for sex it would be easy to convince him to try see if we can make it work, as the sex was real real good, we really have a good chemistry, and he maybe just needs to be remembered about that).

I have a boyfriend for a month now but I am not sure if he loves me. We met really intense and that we had sex but he committed to me as his girlfriend. Throughout our relationship these are the positive and negatives things I have observed

Positive
- He hugs me after sex very close to his chest
- We shower together and our kiss has really meaning
- He is not afraid to show his vulnerability and lose of money
- He shared his dreams to me and plans in life , but mostly it’s him
- Whenever we go out , he always drop me at home safe. He always make sure I go home safe
- He talks to me everyday
- He loves cuddling and kissing me

Negative
- Because we are very far , he is pressuring me to go in his house and I I can’t he gets really mad and threatening me that he will look for other girls
- I saw him chatting many girls and even talking with his ex girlfriends and liking their picture
- I read a chat that he wants his ex girlfriends back
- He is pressuring me to co-sign a loan for him but promise to pay monthly
- He sometimes don’t listen to my stories and it seems like I have to listen to his always
- I paid every date that we had because he is broke
- He just introduces me to his friend as “Girl”
- He never ask how was my day and it’s always his that I needed to help him always with his problems