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In her mid twenties and is truly alone. Spends time by herself 24/7 and was on and off dating apps for years, has called it quits for now. They say dating apps are what you make them but I mean most women are approached first by their boyfriends. I really feel like making the first move versus having the guy initiate the first message really didn’t change the outcome. It just hurts you know, you’re told you’re not bad looking and even when you were a little younger and skinnier, guys never gave you attention in person so you resort to the apps. And the apps are a waste of time, as shallow as it sounds, I see cute/average women get handsome guys and I do feel like I should be eligible enough to get a cute guy too. But I never got what I wanted from the apps, I get msgs but ghosting and what you’d normally expect. It feels like a lost cause, knowing you’re so young and will never find love just bites. How are so many people capable of dating and finding good guys while I am just invisible 🤔

I have a Persian (Iranian) nose and I'm insecure about it, it's too big for my face and it's really droopy especially when I smile, I got bullied about it a lot in middle school. Kids would make fun of my nose or just straight up call me ugly or say that I had a really big nose. Now, I always try to smile weaker so my nose doesn't droop down, people say I look "cute", especially my family, but I'm not sure I mean it. I really want to get a nose job when I'm older, but I just want to know if they would date a girl with a nose like mine.

P. S., if you didn't know this, Iran is the number one country with the biggest amount of Nose Jobs. So pretty much all Iranians have big noses like mine, some are lucky enough to have absolutely beautiful noses.

I just don’t get how people are able to get lucky and meet someone special. I’m going to be 27 soon and knowing that I’ve never been in a real relationship and even out on a date with a guy that has me swoon is odd. I’ve given up on dating apps, I just want a cute smart guy next door. I’m told I’m cute too but was never the woman to get approached by guys in person hence why I figured apps were a better bet. And dating apps have provided nothing but frustration and made me doubt myself even more, as you can see from another post I don’t have a social life. Anytime I hear people say you just haven’t met the right guy it boils my blood. Men and their conceited ways also irritate me but I can’t help but feel the desire to just want that love that I see portrayed all the time on social media and have a guy wine and dine me you know lol.

On a serious note, I mean I’ve known women that say they met their boyfriends while playing video games or in such a random encounter. I play video games and have done the online aspect of it, I really don’t go looking for love any longer (hence dating apps) but don’t understand how it happens by chance for everyone but me. I don’t get what I need to do, I genuinely
know I’m not the issue here.

Long story short: I just fail to meet a guy that’s cute and has a good personality, along with guys just never cold approaching me period.