How to handle my cute, playful but mean boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I am an over sensitive girl and easy to become moody. At first, I met my boyfriend, he is a happy and playful guy who always being funny and teasing in a cute way. He often ask me why so serious and told me the need to be fun and playful to get rid of stress and negative feelings. I agreed and his presence making me getting better and positive. But months later, he begin to become more possesive and on date, he wouldn't want me to leave his side even just for minutes whenever we go. Maybe he wants people to recognize that I am his. He said that I am too attractive that he wouldn't like it if anyone see me in less clothes. He begin to show his rough side - he put his arms around my shoulders and holding my arms a little rough sometimes, he tease me in mean way and think its funny. He would stop when I begin to sulk or to cry. And then he slowing down his behaviour and apologize. He said he was actually a rough guy and could get carried away. But he still trying to treat me warm and soft as far as he could when I need his support or advices. When I begin to act tough or fight a bit, he says he need my soft side that I show him all this time which making him happy. Is this healthy?

[TommyMountainFigure]

He fell for you and now he wants to change you. You need to remind him that if you change who you are then you will no longer be the woman he fell in love with.

Possessiveness is SUCH a horrible trait.

[tatianamay]

He’s in love with you, and he’s possessive of you. He seems insecure. He thinks other guys are gonna steal you away from him. Possessiveness is not a good trait. It may feel all nice at first, like: oh damn, likes me and he’s so protective” NO! he's being possessive, not protective. You need to talk to him about this. Tell him that you’re not okay with him being possessive and that you’re your own person. He needs to get that through his thick skull.

[ifDaddyHadaPrincess]

This sounds like warning signs of an abusive man. My advice is to get out…. But live your life — just know. Men are little snowballs at the beginning of a relationship as it rolls on all those little tiny things add up and become a large dangerous thing.

[Anonymous]

Nope not healthy. Confess your concerns to him and see how he responds. If he responds in a way you would like him to, then see if his behavior changes.

[Uptowngirl88]

He doesn't want to be with you. Get it!

[Yourfriend2021]

Becoming moody can be a problem.

[Texasguy99]

Hi. Dm me. We can chat about it