Search Results: not ready for serious relationship

How and when should I tell a girl that I have feelings for her when she lives abroad and we've only been talking regularly for a month?

So I'm 24 and I run a relatively large LGBTQ+ Facebook community (international group based in the US) and she is 25 and is a spokesperson for a LGBTQ+ nonprofit based in the Philippines. Her nonprofit contacted me about...

Visionary

Xper 4 Age: 30

Society & Politics

Why I won't ever judge someone for aborting or keeping their baby

This is pretty spur of the moment since I just saw a very ignorant question about why abortion is legal but murder isn't. I ask you in response, why is it anyone's business what someone does to their own body? I don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Break Up & Divorce

How do you get over someone who played you TWICE? he won and I’m left broken?

So this happened within 2 years. I met a guy who clearly told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship because he was not over his ex, yet i tried to show him that I’d be the perfect girlfriend! I’d cook for him, bought him...

Z1024T

Xper 2 Age: 31

Flirting

Does he like me or just messing with me?

Last year I had a crush on my male friend and he was giving all the signals that made me think that he likes me. So I proposed him and he said that "lets not spoil anything and remain as friends". So I agreed and after a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does he have feelings for me or just messing with me?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is that possible a Relationship with expat girl or foreign girl?

I want to find a girlfriend or a fiancee from another country without going there and I'm really serious about that. I'm also ready for long distance relationship with her. I think if we're in relationship, we will share...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I know whether my ex will come back?

Me and my ex just broke up after being about 6months together. When we broke up, she said things such as "I dont want to leave you" and things such as "as much as I want to be with you, I'm can't until you can learn...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you handle someone who doesn’t open up?

I’ve been talking to this guy, and it’s long distance so obviously we don’t see each other much and haven’t made the decision to be in a relationship because we aren’t ready for that yet. However, he is like my best...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I go on this trip with my ex? What could be the pros and the cons?

Me and my ex broke up over 3 months ago and I wanted to do a trip out of state for my birthday and he was originally supposed to go, I tried inviting my friends and they didn’t want to go so now imma just let him go, but...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Sexting but not meeting up?

Okay so the basics: he is 27, good-looking and we work at the same place. Our mutual friend gave my name to this guy 2 weeks ago and we started to have a chat, later sexting. He is single (but he's been hurt a lot in his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

In love with my best friend?

I like him a lot and he broke my heart. Before being friends he was really into me but since I couldn’t have sex before marriage we decided to stay friends and maybe wait 3 or 4 years for us to try because he was not...

nanny0427

Xper 4 Age: 32

I love my best friend but he has a new girlfriend now?

I like him a lot. Before being friends he was really into me but since I couldn’t have sex before marriage we decided to stay friends and maybe wait 3 or 4 years for us to try because he was not ready to be that serious....

nanny0427

Xper 4 Age: 32

How do you get over trust issues?

I have a lot of trust issues resulting from being used and taken advantage a lot. When (mainly) guys tell me they find me attractive or something, I have a hard time believing it, assuming it’s just some manipulation...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to stop caring for someone you cared about for years?

I’m in a place where I want to be over this connection I have with this man. We’ve been seeing each for 5 years. We not official but over time we’ve developed feelings for each other. He gets jealous whenever I entertain...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Need advice... help me?

Matched with a guy on match. com and we started to talk non-stop and FaceTimed due to me not being home. He asked me if I was ready to have a serious relationship and to date someone with kids.. I said yes that’s what I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Is the suburbs a nice place to settle down?

I’m about to turn 24. I had a crazy lifestyle partying, drugs, having sex with more women than most rappers have. I’m done, ready to have a serious relationship, and a normal life. I was thinking about transferring my job...

Year3000

Yoda Age: 29

If a guy is not ready for serious relationship but willing to be friends first, is that okay?

I liked a guy who is average in looks, attitude and commited to his work, I asked him if he could give me a chance to be with him. He said he wanted to focus on work and gaining money first before marriage. So, it could...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I need help understanding Divorced men. Was any of it real?

I was seeing a newly separated almost divorced man. I thought he had feelings for me and that it was real. We saw each other for a few months and things started to get a bit serious and towards a serious relationship....

Cali86

Xper 4 Age: 40