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I've been married almost 6yrs now but don't love my wife like I used to. We have 2 young children and at the moment that's why I'm hanging around. I tried to break things off a year ago but my wife had a massive breakdown!
Before we got married we had a few theeesomes with girls and kept having them after we got married. At our grocery store there was a girl who was a 10/10 I told my wife all the time she was my hall pass whenever she asked (wife's was Michael Buble) We moved areas and I added the girl from the store on FB and we started chatting, initially hoping for a threesome with her, however she wasn't into them. We kept chatting anyways which turned into everyday for a few months. She had a boyfriend so I pushed anything about hooking up. One day when my wife was away working I suggested she drive the 2hrs and hang out, half jokingly however she ended up coming over. The first time seeing each other for ages. We had a few drinks then ended up having sex all night then the next morning as well. We met up a few weeks later when I was in town again and had sex again. We both ended up telling each other that we both had feelings for each other but I couldn't give her what she needed right now (relationship) as I was still married. We still kept chatting most days until it turned into once or twice a week. We started again everyday for about 2 weeks now it has suddenly stopped. She is all I think about but we aren't talking. I've decided I am leaving my wife however that's a process! Also I didn't want supermarket girl to think I was just leaving my wife for her!
What should I do?
1. keep persuing supermarket girl even though she's ignoring all of my messages
2. Leave my wife (long process)
3. Stay with the wife
What would you do?

Ok so my dating life is basically girls saying
they want to tay friends
or
ignoring me on street/chat
or simply cooling me off

sometimes i feel so undesired that i think not even a goddamn brick would date me.
If there was a talking brick in a wall of my room i wouldn't know because the likelyhood of it staying quiet to avoid contact with me is fucking high.

well yeah right now i know a girl that likes me and my girl---friend is trying to set her up with me she is a cutie

if that doesn't work out know one thing for sure im leaving the dating for more succesfull people

I was going to have a casual meet with the girl I love. But then she had an urgency to reach back home. So I decided to drive her near her home and then have a chit chat over there... during the drive she said something which I didn't like (it kind of hurt me (I agree she said it jokingly)) so instead of reacting with a raised voice or something like that I decided to stay shut and didn't utter a word (for next 30 mins)

Later when we were near her location , she said "take a right turn (so we could talk )" and he lives in the left lane , I took a left and then I looked at her face (she wasn't angry but I saw a tear and knew I was fcked up now), this happened yesterday.

Today she called up and said "don't even call me your best friend"
(And she knows I love her)
She's the love of my life and I can't live my life to fullest without her

Please help me...