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I am talking to this guy I met from OKC for around 2 weeks. Before we met in person, we FaceTimed and spoke on the phone for hours. When we met in person, we went on a date to a fine dining location and we discussed prior to meeting up to possibly go play video games at his pad. I say pad because he is a truck driver that recently moved from another location and is still residing in the truck. The inside looks like a tiny room. After the date, we went to this truck and relaxed. He asked to kiss me.

We ended up making out and it got pretty hot (in my opinion at least). He is not a virgin and I still am. I am not necessarily saying that I am going to wait until marriage but I wanted to know worst case scenario if he would. And he said no because he believes a partner should have sex before marriage to confirm there is a legitimate intimacy connection.

He told his mom about me and I asked him when he was going to delete his OKC profile during the date because he seemed to like me. And we both deleted our profiles together.

We hung out the next day because it was New Year’s Eve. I asked 1st because I thought he would want to do something. If I was okay relaxing, he was okay with me coming over and playing video games again.

That turned into second base for me and he wanted to go down on me but I wasn’t ready. Anytime I said stop depending on my mood or feeling, he listens and we talk. He drove over an hr to see me for the first date and said he is willing to take 2 days off a week to spend time together. He also invited me to go on a cruise with him for his birthday because he has a time share.

He says he only believes in titles when it comes time to address a woman to other people. But he said he does consider me his girlfriend because he is only seeing me and we are intimate. But he said if the title is too soon for me, there is no rush. There is no rush for sex either. Am I being played? He says I have nothing to worry about but I don’t trust men 😶.

FIRS time he stood me up and asked to meet me today in the morning.

I said sure and that I will text him on that day before I leave. So I head out and I text him. No reply.. it's getting close to the meeting time. I asked if he was flaking.. he said no he's going he had to do something. 30 minutes pass and I asked him to call me. No call. I call him. I told him this was not cool and I'm heading home. While I wait for my ride he calls. I couldn't hear him though... called him back nothing. He texts me that he has bad signal and he's truly sorry and he's almost there. I told him I'm already on my way home and he offers to pick me up. I declined. He says he feels so bad and he's so sorry. I don't believe it though. I felt humiliated sitting in the dining place alone and continuously calling him to get in contact. I cried in my uber car and I felt horrible. Has anyone ever been stood up before?

He is 26 and I am 28 with a son from a previous relationship. We've been exclusively dating for 3 months. And yes, we had sex already. He told me he is not comfortable seeing me with some other guy and he doesn't want to hang out with other girls anymore. My question is, when I tried to pop in the "label" thing, he just said he doesn't know what he wants. I told him that he is not serious and let's just be casual. He said, "it doesn't mean I cannot express myself, I am not serious." He just said I should trust him and I matter to him. I told him that all I wanted to hear is, "I have priorities but always remember is that you are special". He said he was thinking the same way but afraid to tell me because I want the other way around and that is a relationship. After that confrontation, that night he said he was sorry for not meeting my expectations and he was really sad I was thinking he is not being serious with me. I don't know if he keeps me around because he likes me or he is getting the benefits without the pressure of being commited.

We usually talk everyday. I asked him to do this, "do not let the day pass by without saying good morning and goodnight". He kept his promise until now, and made sure we talk about anything everyday. We commit our Sunday as "you and me time". Watching movies, dining and sometimes be intimate. Everytime we are together I feel loved and secured.

He already met my 7 year old son one time and he said he likes him.

I just want to know if there is a possible serious relationship or I am just wasting my timem