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Search Results: turned off by shyness
Would you ever date a shy person?
Hey everyone! :) So I am really a shy girl and reserved especially in big groups and I just want to know if you guys are okay with dating someone like that? I heard some guys are turned off by it especially...
Anonymous
(25-29) I'm really shy is it a turn off?
I'm a really shy girl and I've never had a boyfriend before but when people do talk to me I try not to act shy and I get really nervous that my hands start to shake also sometimes I stop using eye contact because of my...
Kami_xox
Xper 4 Age: 23 Confidence and Culture Shock
For a good period of my life, I struggled with the American notion of "confidence". It wasn't until I started to develop a very personal concept of what it is and what it means that I started to find something I could...
ak666
Editor Age: 45 Shy Girl/Shy Guy?
I can't get any outstanding opinions from anyone, so I instinctively turned to the internet. Here's the low down: I'm homeschooled, and my school had a meet up at coffee shop so that we could meet students. I met this...
Anonymous
(18-24) Are serious women less attractive?
I'm curious to know if women who tend to be serious are a turn off for men? I myself am very serious most of the time and I see that the majority of guys respect me more and feel a bit intimidated by that too. Is not...
Anonymous
(30-35) I know I have to move on but should I ignore if I see her at school? What should I do when I'm going to approach a girl so this won't happen again?
I blew my chance with this girl in college. I made her wait 2 years and all we did was look at each other but we never talk before. I never did a move because her body language was throwing me off she will give me smirks,...
Gabriel123
Xper 5 Age: 30 Girls, I think I figured out why you like men with confidence?
Ok, so I think I know why you love confidence. A confident guy will make him more masculine. A confident guy will be more social, assertive, protective, dominant, and have better leadership skills. A confident guy looks...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this girl busy or just playing me?
So girls (and guys), this is my problem. I think I already know the answer but I wanted to ask someone nevertheless: A couple of weeks ago I met a girl, ended up friending her on Facebook and inviting her to a date, she...
Misha_the_bear
Xper 2 Age: 36 26 year old male virgin, is it too late for me?
I'm 26 years old and I've been suffering from social anxiety and severe shyness ever since my early teenage years. The problem is, it's kept me from developing properly socially, and as such I've never been in a...
Anonymous
(36-45) I'm so sad... I don't have anywhere else to turn to. I feel like my life is worthless? & I don't know why?
I'm 21. I've had history of blues & depression off and on for the past 6 years... But nothing compares to the emptiness I feel now. I'm going to school for psych, I find the human brain fascinating but that's about it. I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Everything About The Shy Girl
I have been wanting to write this myTake for a long time because I know there are a lot of things guys don’t completely understand about shy girls.I hope this mytake will help guys understand a little bit more about how...
Memora
Xper 6 Age: 28 5 Timeless Qualities of the Attractive Male
This could kind of be seen as a question as well as a Take, but here are five qualities which I consider based on feedback from ex girlfriends and female friends on five qualities in men that would never stop being...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 Is acne a bad turn off on a guy?
I have always been told I am really good looking, at first it was just my mom and her friends saying it, but then my friends parents would say stuff like I would be a really good looking guy when I got older. In middle...
Anonymous
(30-35) 5 Reasons Why Women Should Ask Men Out More Often
5 reasons why women should ask men out more often and an explanation of the current situation when asking someone on a date In the past it has been basically required of men to ask women out, and even into this day and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Demystifying Popularity
Ah, popularity...I think it's a topic that can be made relevant to the site by the sheer volume of teenagers who use it. Obviously, they aren't as vocal and mostly just ask questions about why someone doesn't like them,...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 I need help with this guy?
Hello everyone I'm into this guy for almost 8months now we have a looong story togheter. He works as a security guard in a shopping center and i go to that same shopping as long as i remember. The first time i saw him...
Anonymous
(30-35) Help me decode this guy's attitudes?
I'm into this guy for almost 8months now we have a looong story togheter. He works as a security guard in a shopping center and i go to that same shopping as long as i remember. The first time i saw him there and we...
Anonymous
(30-35) My Lesbian Friend (23/F) Asked Me (25/F) Out. I'm Interested But Turned Her Down Because It Didn't Feel Real. Did I Do the Right Thing?
I (25/f) suffer from social anxiety/shyness, and low self-esteem. I’ve never dated and I’m bad at communicating/understanding signs of attraction. Jess (23/F) is lesbian, outgoing, friendly and tomboyish. We met last year...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why did he say these things to intentionally hurt me?
So there was this guy, I was never really interested in from the beginning until I noticed he was trying to get my attention. He would stare at me for a long time across the room and smile, but I was too (shy) to smile...
Anonymous
(25-29) I think I understand why I can't get women. I'm a bad guy but im shady about it. Is my logic correct now. It's all been kind of hard to put together?
I'm a nice guy. Or really just a bad guy who thinks he has to be nice to get women. That actually sound right to me honestly, I always thought you had to be nice to get anything in life. (My first problem). I thought that...
Anonymous
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