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Is being curvy/thick more attractive then other body types? Which do prefer?

So I'm in a relationship with someone. I have been for about two months now. He's starting to show his true colors, and many problems and arguments have occurred. He doesn't have the same ideals as me, he views relationships, money, and life differently than I do. He doesn't care about my opinion on things, he'll do them even if I beg him not to. However, we share some common interests and he's generous. A friend I've been talking to for a while now said that he's not right for me, and maybe I'm just too blinded to see it. However, recently I'm realizing that this friend thinks exactly the way I do in every situation or idea we've talked about, has the same goofy sense of humor as me, has common interests, he's more willing to compromise, and he's slowly becoming more and more attractive to me.. Not to mention he's a gorgeous, hard working, fit, man with a sexy accent, love for kids, and a strong sense of family. I feel really bad for being attracted to someone else, but he's a good friend. He has no idea I find him remotely attractive, but he displayed interest before I got into this relationship. I believe every relationship deserves a chance, and I won't give up on it until I feel there's absolutely nothing left. I feel like having someone else there kinda stealing the spotlight is clouding my judgement. Then again, if I felt this relationship was right for me, I wouldn't even find anyone besides my boyfriend attractive.. I don't know if I should keep fighting for this relationship or give up and maybe see if this guy is interested.

It all started this fall with a church friend who's name was let's say Nate who I asked to Homecoming as I liked him and we were becoming friends. He liked me at the time but I didn't know until later. Nate and I were so close to dating but then I started rehearsing for a musical I was in and was literally swept off my feet by another guy. (Jack) so them came the decision between Nate and Jack. Let's just say I chose very wrong and friendzoned Nate before even really getting to know Jack. Nate blew up a little and I felt really bad. Jack ended up treating me like crap and I wanted to go back to Nate but he already had another girl he was interested in. So I told my best friend of 3 years that I might be interested in more than a friendship and he said I have loved you this whole time. We almost dated on the spot however we were hesitant because we didn't want yo ruin our amazing friendship and he can be a little dirty and he jokes around with me a lot. Not in a bad way. So I overheard at church that some other guy was trying to get between Nate and this new girls relationship. i hadn't talked to him since he blew up on me for friend zoning him. I pulled him aside at church and poured my heart out to him and said if there was any chance his other relationship didn't work out that I would be there if he wanted to take me back and he said to give him time but he hears what I was saying. Now after seeing Nate and this other girl blossom in their relationship even as someone tries to get in between them I realize how much I miss him and want him back now more than ever. But them I still have my best friend who admits to actually loving me this whole time and i don't know which guy to pursue more. Nate is extremely attractive but not available at the moment, and mark is sweet and he loves me but I am not as attracted to him and we don't want to ruin our friendship. I need some advice/guidance.
Thanks in advance for reading this!