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For the last few years I’ve tried have a more non chalant and “well later bitch” attitude when a woman does something shitty when trying to date. That is when they inexplicably ghost, stands me up on a date, unprovoked slights, acting flaky, assuming I’m okay with the friend zone, etc.

However acting like you don’t care is supposed to be the “alpha” way to handle that bs. I have to act like I got plenty of options and it’s her loss.

But the truth is DOES bother me. It adds up. It jades me. The level of disrespect I’ve seen from some women nowadays is appalling.

I HAVE started calling them out. I figure I had nothing to lose anyway. If she’s going to treat me like that than I’m not going to want anything to do with her. But it felt good to ventilate my frustration a few times.

Some of my buddies have said not to do that. Like that permanently closes the door with the girl. But seriously why should I cling on to any hope anyway? At least I got to have one last say.

So I have a college friend (female). She has a 5 years older boyfriend. I got to know her boyfriend too. He's a nice guy and a good friend of minr, he supports me in things and all.

One day me and my friend were alone in my apartment and after a while, we started playing Truth or Dare. So, at that moment everything seemed normal. Like it was just me and my friend playing and it didn't look that much of a big deal. During the Game I was made to strip Complety naked, she dared me to kiss her, fondle her breast over the clothes etc. She touched me. (sorry for the details if they bother you) We did not go any further ahead. She didn't remove any clothes I didn't force her to. The game ended.

Ever since the game ended I've been feeling very Guilty because I kinda broke trust of her boyfriend. And even I was dating someone at that time. Is this considered cheating? And was I very wrong to do this?

I think this details are gross already sorry for that. I can't share more details on here.