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I'm so tired of being hurt. there's a girl, I've known for four years at this point, originally I hit on her to no avail, for 3. friggin. years. She never said she didn't like me, in fact we spend a lot of time together talking and really getting to know each other.

I planned so much for her, I began to admittedly obsess over her, constantly thinking about what I could do for her, but when I made her a valenties present she never even looked at, when I asked her to dance at homecoming and she said no then grinded with someone else, when I asked her to prom and she took... Someone she wound up dating then breaking up with when she realized he wasn't the faithful type... I realized she wasn't feeling me.

When she was in a relationship I left her alone because I don't play like that, but then we started talking again this summer and then she invited me to a party and then we became friends as we worked on summer homework together and we just became closer, and closer, and she broke up with her boyfriend and I waited for a month or two, then I asked If she'd ever consider seeing me as more than a friend, She said "not now."

I think she meant not ever.
We genuinely became best friends, we told each other everything, but I always had this feeling that I was being used. For money, or transportation, or just for comfort. She told me she loved me and I told her but we meant it as friends.

Then she asked me out over the phone. I didn't know how to respond and stumbled over my words until I realized this probably would never happen again, and though I was content being her friend I mean, why not. Then she told me she was joking.

Now I'm asking myself why I put up with this pain, we have an interesting friendship n that we're both pretty offensive to one another but lightheartedly.
But she's always pushing the line, always doing to much, always using the weak points I've shown her to tap at me and see if I crack.

I met this girl at work three or four months ago and thought she was really cute. Eventually during some free time at work she came over and we started talking to each other. She is from Honduras and speaks Spanish, so there is a bit of a language barrier, but I speak passable Spanish. Anyways, she asked me if I had a wife, or a girlfriend, or anything and I told her no. When I asked her the same she said she had a boyfriend in Honduras. This was in the June-July area of time.

After that we spoke every once in awhile, but it was never anything deep or meaningful, just "Hey how are you?" and stuff. Anyways, last weekend a different coworker (F) was having a party. The Honduran girl (S) had mentioned it before and asked if I was going and I had told her no because I had a friend's birthday party to go to.

The night of the party rolls around and F asked I was going to go and I said probably not, I have a different party to go to first at least, but I might show up later. Then she asked S if she was still coming and she said no, she didn't feel like it. So, I texted her and asked if she really wasn't going. She said she didn't think so. So, I responded that was too bad. She asked if I was going and I said that I was probably going to show up a bit later, the other party was kind of far away and apparently costume themed which I wasn't prepared for. She then said "Well, if you're going then I will go."

I meet up with her at the party and talk to her on and off through the night. Eventually people start leaving and going to bed, etc, and I notice the guys she had come to the party with had gone. Apparently they had gotten bored and went to go dance at a bar or something. I offered her a ride home and she accepted. We got to her house, I got out of the car to walk her to the door, and when I hugged her goodbye I went to pull back and then she pulled me back in and kissed me.

So the question: what do I do? See poll and/or comment.