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So I have some issues with some colleagues and I’m at a crossroads. Some girls at my church do not like me.

Some differences between me and them/some things they said to me:

1. I’ve been told by the girls that I always dress up and wear makeup. The other girls wear sweatpants/casual wear and no makeup.

2. I was told by some girls that I’m just “drop dead gorgeous”. Some of the girls have been hurt by guys who chose to be nicer to me then them, but this is beyond my control. Some of the guys liked me over them but again, out of my control.

3. Some girls also said that I have too many things going for me, like a good wealthy family, looks and a good job. I’ve been through my share of hardship which I shared with them but they don’t care. Some of them literally walked away from me and shut me down. Some just think I had it easy and say things like, “if I had known that things would work out like it did for you I would have stuck through all hardships.” WTF I never knew everything would work out for me. Wtf am I supposed to do? Disown my family and scar my own face?

4. I own designer bags as they were a gift from family and friends. But the girls think I’m conceited for buying it. They don’t believe me when I tell them it’s a gift. They also speak badly of my parents for buying me nice things. My parents worked hard for their money so who are they to speak ill of them?

5. They also think I’m superficial cuz I’m thin with good skin. Yes part of it is genetic. Another part is due to habit. My dad is a doctor and always encouraged healthy eating and exercise. I will get sick if I don’t do this.

6. They also accuse me of hanging out with boys all the time. But to be honest, I hang out with the boys because they (the girls) are not nice to me. Boys know this and have encouraged me to find other girl friends.

I don’t think I should have to change my clothes or diet to satisfy others since it’s not harming anybody.

I got into a stupid fight with this girl back in November and we weren’t talking until about two weeks ago she messaged me and apologized. I forgave her and we have hung out. She is in the process of looking for a job and her parents won’t give her any money. We are both 17. I also have to drive her because she doesn’t have any car insurance because she doesn’t have a job. When we went to the YMCA to go swimming, I had to pay for her food for dinner because she didn’t have any money. This week she had gift cards to dave and busters and I had to pay for her food for dinner again after dave and busters. Tonight there is a concert that I have an extra ticket too - she said there’s no food at her house because her mom hasn’t gone to the store in about two weeks (idk how true that is) and she wants me to stop for food before the concert and pay for it. She’s also came over to my house in the past - to eat. Her family lives in a wealthy neighborhood and I know her mom works a lot of overtime and her dad travels a lot but Jesus. It’s like everytime I invite her to do something - I have to pay for her! She is polite though and says thank you and doesn’t give in attitude. She wants to go to this water park that’s like $60 admission and I told her maybe when you get a job we can go and she’s like but can we go before then and I can pay you back once I get. A job - I don’t know if I believe her that she will pay back and I don’t wanna be out $120. I kinda regret inviting her to the concert tonight because now I’m stuck paying for her yet again.

I would. I wanna get out of this hell hole. Like yeah I love my family only because they are the people with me since birth..

I got 4 members in my family; dad, mum, sis and me. my dad dead, yea i love my sis but my mum honestly hates me. also its because of her i have this fuckin genetic mutation i have to deal with the rest of my life which is also ruining every bit of me. I love my sister a lot but, get me out of here. I feel unloved, ugly, unsupported, alone. It doesn't feel like a family to me.

Strangely enough, it does to my sister and mum. I don't fucking know man. Life is such a bitch. We didn't choose to be born so if we are gonna be at least give us some choices man 🤦‍♀️ It's funny how we all have the same gift; life, but some people just have better lives because they were lucky to be born in loving families..

And when sucks more is that if I leave my family I literally have no one left. 😔 I don't want to of course, I still yearn for my mum's love. She's too condemning towards me... Oh well.

So it was my mum's birthday and I gave her a beautiful necklace (with dad's name written on it) and she felt very emotional and later we went to a mall for shopping, she secretly gave a toilet excuse to all of us and went and purchased this dress for me. It was amazing , I got a return gift on her birthday and this colour looks so amazing. Do u like this dress? 😁