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I don't know what the dating world is like anymore. Frankly, I'm not interested right now. Most of my attention goes to getting ready for my career. Once I've become the best damned massage therapist I can be, and start making decent money, I'll probably have a tentative interest in dating, but sex and romance have just never been huge priorities for me.

Joining GaG, I expected sexual questions to be a major focus. There's all kinds of experiences regarding how the opposite sex feels and feels about things that I am ravenous to know more about. I did not expect to see so many people on here winging about how hard it is to find a SO.

I can't stand this "Nobody settles for average guys" rhetoric I've seen on the front page twice in as many days now. I don't think there's even an inkling of truth to it. I don't like to rate people, it seems dehumanizing, but suffice to say I've known a lot of guys who are married to women most people would consider to be way out of their league, and vice versa. Not just in terms of looks, but when it comes to intellect, finances and charm.

It just seems like a big ol' pity party, and I can't stand that. I'm not super-handsome. I'm an oddball. I used to be super-skinny, but my metabolism is slowing down, and I feel fat now. My frame is still long and relatively skinny, but I've definitely got a bit of a belly; that's super-attractive, right? Just some gangley, fleshy boulder? xD I'm almost totally broke, I live at home, and I have to pinch every penny I have, because I'm constantly worried my financial aid won't be enough to get me through my degree and certification.

And... I still get interested looks, and the occasional flirting semi-regularly. Am I crazy? Is it possible I'm just incredibly, devilishly charming?

Enough listening to me talk. Is it really that hard to get a date now if you put yourself out there? Do you think their standards are too high, or they're just not meeting enough/the right people?

We have been together for 1.5 years. No kids/not married. Still live with our parents. I'm 19 she's 18. It's only been about 3 months but it's starting to get to me. She got her first job in February (which is around when this began). Since then, she puts no effort into our kisses, cuddling, She never wants to have sex anymore, etc... We have had sex only 2 or 3 times the last 3 months. We used to have sex 5+ times a week.

Everytime I try to initiate sex, she either subtly turns me down or says she's too tired. I hate sounding needy but I'm starting to get sexually frustrated. Like I said before, it's her first job (part time) so she might not be used to the work thing yet, but I work a full time construction job and make almost 3x the hours she makes, I'm tired AF when I get home but I ALWAYS make time for her (even if she doesn't seem to appreciate it anymore). I hate saying this but I have been considering letting her go. I don't want to break up because of sex but I just don't feel wanted.

The only thing that's holding me back is that I love her with all my heart. She says she does too. But it doesn't feel like it. I have been fighting for us so hard but she seem to be not attracted to me. Maybe she loves me but isn't attracted to me? I don't know but it really hurts me