Search Results: letting him down easy

How can I stand up for myself and not seem so easy?

i use to not be like this. I been with this guy over 5 years. until last year, I let my guard down. I let him basically walk over me by being afraid to say the word no to questions that need to be answered with a no. I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what's the difference between mean and teasing?

When I like a guy, I have this weird tendency to suddenly feel all aggressive/competitive (adrenaline rush?) and consequently end up teasing him. I always feel terrible afterward! Usually I'm not too mean, but it's like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is she actually busy, or letting me down easy? Is she interested or just being nice to avoid sounding mean?

I got a girl's number through a mutual friend. Was told to call her. I went into the shop where she works and introduced myself. Called her later that day to ask her out. Got the voice mail, so I left a message asking her...

werschelhalker

Xper 5 Age: 40

Shopping & Gifts

"Ex" of 3 years still ignores me but stares when I'm not looking...

So, I can't even call this guy an ex-boyfriend. Instead, we had a very complicated, romantically-charged friendship for several years. We both admitted strong feelings for each other, but he was starting a business and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

Just friends...for now. What does that even mean?

Long, very intricate story short, this guy that I am very good friends with and I have hooked up recently. We did last year and I was smitten and things didn't go how I had hoped. Moving on, we're back at a place now...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does maybe mean no or is she waiting for something?

This girl and I have been good friends for about a year now and I really like her so I asked her out and she said, "Maybe <3". I thought she was just letting me down easy, but since then we have become better friends and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating a girl for 3 months; drops the "I'm not ready for a relationship on me" BS? see details

Met a girl around the holidays, hit it off. We meshed well, had a lot of fun together. One problem is she is away at school until May, but we still texted/chatted a lot while she was back at school and I even visited....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it really just a break or is it the end?

Our relationship was going great for 15 months. Then, around Christmas time, I was trying to remember the name of the website where I thought I had ordered my boyfriend a Christmas gift. As I was looking through my...

mdh2964

Xper 4 Age: 62

Need your opinion, I asked out this guy and he said he was busy with school work?

was he letting me down easy? he never brought it up again and I saw him in school months later he was talking to other friends and girls and stuff. how am I supposed to act around him do I just ignore him cause he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Can someone's feelings change when they find out you like them?

I told my guy friend I have feelings for him. He had no idea. He told me he really liked me and I was one of his best friends. He didn't say whether or not he felt the same. I'm taking it as him letting me down easy, but...

iloveyou

Xper 6 Age: 37

My girlfriend feels like she's married again and isn't sure she gave herself enough time after her divorce.

I've been seeing a woman for the past year and a half and things were going great. The feeling was mutual. We were constantly together, out having fun, She said she wanted to have my children, life happily ever after....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Letting girls down easy.

Recently I have decided to be single for the next year. Mainly to focus on my job, and volunteering. As of recent, a lot of women have been coming forth, and initiating the want to either date, go on dates, or be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think we have a future? Or is this a let down?

This is overly confusing. I've been dating a girl for 2 months. Not exclusive, but "dating." I finally broke down and admitted to her how I felt. She responded with "I like you and think you're really sweet." I would...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Please help me out here, is this a bad sign?

Background info: I met this guy last spring when we did a school project together and instantly liked him, but at the same time he was dating one of my good friends. We always got along well and we always talked and hung...

xoxo98

Xper 5 Age: 30

Dating

Can a guy really like a girl but not be ready to date seriously?

If he was in a serious relationship for 3 years and it ended not that long ago ( around 6 months ) could he really not be ready or is he letting me down easy. He says things like " when I'm ready you will be the first to...

Cynthia325

Xper 4 Age: 40

How to convince her its worth it?

for the past while I've been dating this girl, we're both madly in love. the problem is we live 45 minutes away by car and neither of us can drive, and we can only get together every 2-3 weeks. about a week ago she told...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Should I be mad at my boyfriend for letting his friends give me birthday spankings?

I am 22 now as of yesterday and had a nice birthday party that my boyfriend through for me. We had a real good time went swimming and had a cookout. Me and my boyfriend most always get along with each other and never...

Anonymous

(36-45)

We slept together, now she isn't into me anymore? Was she letting me down easy?

I'd known her for a year or so and we finally got together after admitting we had always liked each other. Ended up sleeping together about a month ago. We kept talking a lot afterward and hung out but never did anything...

Anonymous

(36-45)