I personally have way too much selfrespect to let ANYONE, treat me like that. But that's just me and people are different. The fact that you just let it all happen and laughed it away doesn't sound good to me honestly. I would never be in a situation like that so I wouldn't really know how I would react either, so I guess I will give you the benefit of doubt. But more importantly the fact that your boyfriend has SO LITTLE respect for you that he would do something like that, is just, well I don't even have any words. I'm sure he likes you and I'm sure he does care for you, but treating you like your some kind of slut? No.
Sometimes having selfrespect and personal boundaries at all times, is what MAKES people respect you. Try it.
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I'm quite sure it didn't bother any of them. Not much adventure for a guy to see a bare ass these days with the clothes and swimwear girls wear.
If it makes you feel any better a month or so ago the restaurant/bar I work at held a bags tourament sponsered by Red Bull. Had a great turn out with lots of on lookers. One female player little tippsy I would say wearing a short blue skirt with a white thong unknowingly while bent over was showing not only her ass, but the thong had scrunched to one side between leg and the magic lips giving everyone full shot of her! Yes that exactly! lol Imagine that nobody even attempted to tell her of her problem, but a good many phone cams were clicking away!
yeah that was kinda jerky but girl you should have stood up for yourself if you didn't like what was going on you can't expect others to do it for you. woman up next time.
I think it's up to you. If your knee jerk reaction is not to be angry, then let it go. If you want, in a few days or weeks, just let him know you don't want to be in that position, literally, again. That he can for sure spank you most anytime he wants, including birthdays, but others are not so entitled. Unless you're opposed to him spanking you?
Your boyfriend isn't funny, he's an a**hole. I would never do this to my Girlfriend because its totally degrading. It be one thing if I went up to my own Girlfriend and gave her a little birthday spanking, but exposing her ass to my entire group of friends and letting them line up to spank her is not my idea of a joke.
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he was tactless and you should point it out to him in a nice way and try to make him understand how you felt. If he apologizes and you can tell it was just a mistake and he's sorry than that's that. But if he doesn't care and thinks your being stupid than you have a right to be mad at him
speaking strictly as a guy who was abused by a drunk father and had the crap beat out of me as a kid, ...GET OVER IT!
I'll gladly trade one memory of a bloody face and chest for a friendly spanking!
PERSPECTIVE!For the win:
This is a guy, posing as a girl and projecting his fantasy?Your boyfriend is a douche.
Uh... yeah. Wow.
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