Should I get mad at my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I got curious and went on his Youtube history, which was mostly normal guy things. However, there were about 10-12 consecutive videos about Colombian/mexican strippers, finding wives in Colombia, and titled things like “Big booty girl in Tijuana”. Of course I watched a few minutes of some videos and it was just POV of men walking through cities in Colombia, etc. during the day and nighttime/nightlife? We’ve had issues in the past with him checking out other women, Instagram likes, etc. Although we’ve moved passed these issues, I feel like there’s a bigger issue. From my perspective, I’m now starting to feel as though he doesn’t appreciate me or value my looks and will always be searching for something else. We’ve been together for almost 4 years.

[Anonymous]

Well it’s better it’s on YouTube than in real life. Trust me doesn’t matter if you found another man or not dudes will always check out mother women. Always someone hotter, prettier, younger, etc, etc. I really don’t understand how women expect that a man to just forget that there’s millions of other hot women on the face of this earth. Not going to happen. I will say though if he’s doing it right in front of you, which doesn’t sound like he was because you were snooping, he shouldn’t be doing that right in front of your eyes. I’m not so sure this is a “we” had issues in the past, more so you had issues.

[Asker]

Well yeah it is a we issue and you don’t know what has happened between us involving other girls.. like him whipping out his phone during sex watching porn. And yes I have caught him staring at women multiple times in front of me.

[Opinion Owner]

So then leave.