Should I be mad at my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone tonight. We are a new couple and don’t get to see each other right now except through face time because I go to college kind of far away from my hometown. I’m moving back home at the end of the month. anyways he tells me everything on the phone and tells me how much he likes me and swears he’ll never leave or hurt me. Some people probably roll their eyes at this but I can only go by his word and I trust him. We’ve talked about our exes before and he told me he dated a girl in high school and it was really toxic so they broke up. Today on the phone he told me that he met this girl at a party in high school and they dated for a while and he dated two girls in middle school. I kind of flipped on him because he never told me this before. He made it seem like that one ex was the only one. I asked him why he never told me this and he said he didn’t want to seem like a player and he sounded really bummed and worried over the phone all of a sudden. We’ve been talking for three months and a couple for two and he’s never told me this before. He told me he didn’t want me to be mad and it was all in the past and not a big deal and he was scared I would stop talking to him for it. I eventually let it go but he told me he would never lie to me about anything and would be open about everything and swore on the Bible. I really like him and he’s a good boyfriend but should Ik be mad at him for this?

[NathanDavis]

you are obviously mad already, but I think you should not make a big deal out of this... you are a new couple and you seem to have a limited time too, so there are many things you do not know him and there will be other things probably, that you don't know yet, these things can take time, so give it time. Just because he has not mentioned some things yet, it doesn't mean he is a liar, and this is about trust, sometimes you can't open yourself fully and completely... you do it slower, then you build upon that trust. If you really want things to work out with him, then you should try to build some trust and not snap so quickly, he explained why things happened the way they happened so get mad... but also try to understand and go around it.

[exitseven]

Everyone has a past. High school was weird for just about everyone. Being separated is hard because things he might have told you if you were together in person may go unsaid and after a while it is weird to bring it up. I have been married for 25 years and my wife and I know just about everything about each other. However there is one thing that I never told anyone else about , not even her. I could never find the right time to tell her and now it would be weird (I didn't kill anyone or anything awful, it's more embarrassing)
He sounds sincere. I would forgive him and maybe think about someting that he doesn't know about you.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

You're mad because he didn't tell you about his exs? Seriously? So what! He isn't with them now, is he?
This isn't anything to be mad about.

[Anonymous]

Women are so afraid players yet it is exactly what they all want. At least most men admit they like sluts.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Prepare yourself for heart break.

[sexylette4life]

U need to quit trippin