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Let's say you are coworkers but never considered dating her because either she's not your type or lacks personality or you think there's no chemistry between you. Would you see her differently or would your feelings change If she confessed she has a crush on you or you'd just feel flattered and moved on?
I wouldn't rightly know, I've never had anyone confess directly like that. At least in no way they couldn't easily gaslight me about later.
I've been plenty of bold (probably too early and too direct), it's a sure moodkiller in my experience. We can have great chemistry and feel like we're going places but as soon as I feel too heavy with hoping I kind of break and go straight at them with a truthful proposition like a date or intently ask them if they have a boyfriend or something and from there the tension is just gone and she behaves disinterested.
I'm working on it.. and maybe soon I will be able to play that game until it's undeniable, in the future. Right now I just get too impatient and mushy inside.
Or, maybe they just want playful, flirty, touchy, friendships. I guess I could do that too, though then they'd be in my friendzone.
My opinion of that person could definitely change. I could even see myself becoming attracted to that person after I found out she had a crush.
On the other hand, I could also see myself feeling really awkward and uncomfortable around that person, after I found out.
It really depends on the person and the situation.
Turn on for me, confidence is sexy. I somehow feel a bit attracted to the person when I know they're interested.
Maybe that's also the case for some guys. It will depend on your attraction and connection with each other.
I would be flattered but it will stop there; it's clearly wrong to think just because a guy has feelings it does mean I will love him back!
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As a guy, I would congratulate her for having the strength to tell me. If I was not interested, I would also tell her I am flattered, but I do not feel the same.
I would NOT go to HR unless she continued to pursue the issue.
Why are you harrassing men on the job? Ur weird and creepy af. On top of that you're chasing a man which should tell you he doesn't like you. If I were him I'd filing sexual harrassment on the job against you
Yes, makes me notice them more and usually works out in her favor.
Yes but it might not be the reaction you want or are expecting.
It's changes everything for ever , and it will NEVER again be the same.
It usually turns me off people.
Weird I know.
From my experience, confessing you have/had a crush on someone is the worst thing you can do. They wil relentlessly hate you for it.
Since I am not single I would feel flattered, but a little sad that she can't date me, even though she wants to.
Yes this is the case with many women i believe this happens when the man is not enough of a challenge or he has not established enough value.
Does girls really confess... If so i would be feeling proud of myself
I think it would be possible.
Feelings change but don't shit where you eat
Nothing would change.
Yes I would
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