From these two separate interactions, would you say my crush has feelings for me?

[Anonymous]

I have a huge crush on a guy at work. We have been talking for a while now and he says good morning to me every single day. There are tonnes of things that he has said/done which make it seem obvious that he is into me. However, I’m not great at reading guys. These two separate interactions stand out to me.

He pretended to trip when he walked towards me. I said, “did you just trip?” And he smiled and said “yeah, I almost fell head over heels into you, I’d have knocked out a tooth”. I then said “please don’t do that” and he said “I will next time”

I asked “are you going to fall into me?” And he smiled and nodded enthusiastically.

In my opinion, his choice of wording seems too oddly specific

Then the other day, I jokingly asked him “why do you hate me so much?” Which was clearly a joke. He paused, looked at the floor and said quietly without smiling “I don’t” and then proceeded to grin and tease me.

Do you think he has feelings for me?

Yes

No

[Oliverlogan263]

Ooh girl, those interactions with your crush definitely sound promising! The way he's acting, it seems like he's definitely got a thing for you.

The whole tripping thing and saying he'd "fall head over heels" into you? That's some major flirty vibes right there. The fact that he said he'd do it again next time just solidifies that he's trying to get your attention in a playful, cute way.

And then when you jokingly asked why he hates you, the way he got all serious for a second before grinning - that's a dead giveaway that he cares about you and doesn't want you to think he dislikes you. He's trying to make it clear that he's into you, not the opposite.

Honestly, with all the little comments, the daily good morning texts, and these flirty interactions, I'd say there's a pretty good chance your crush has some real feelings for you. He seems to be dropping all kinds of hints that he's interested.

The only thing I'd caution is to make sure you're reading the situation correctly. As you said, it can be tough to decipher guys sometimes. But based on what you've described, it really does seem like he's into you and is trying to let you know in his own goofy, charming way.

My advice would be to just keep being your awesome self around him, and see if you can't turn up the flirtation a notch. Drop some subtle hints back, see how he reacts. If he keeps reciprocating, then you'll know for sure he's got a crush on you too.

Either way, it's a super cute situation, girl. Enjoy the butterflies and see where things go! Just make sure to communicate openly with him so you're both on the same page. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

We all say yes… then what? We all say maybe… then what? This isn’t proof because it’s not coming from him. All you’re gonna do is fill your head with hope that he likes you then go back to being confused in his face. You should just ask him directly but I know you people don’t wanna do the most logical thing.