Is that suppose to be a nice way to say no I don’t like you and not interested in you? Please share your thoughts on his response. Also , if you ever had an experience similar to mine. How did it turn out for you?
I confessed my feelings to my crush after several months of talking. What are your thoughts on my crush’s response?
I was on both sides of this situation before. I had to let a girl friend down recently and it really sucked. I was honestly sorry I had to do that, but I knew it was the right thing to do. I did not want to hurt her even more later when the eventual relationship would not work out. And I knew it wouldn't work out. There were several red flags (also on my side and I was aware of them).
When I was on the receiving end it also sucked big time. But from my prospective, an honest reply is always better than slow fades or ghosting. It lets you know exactly where you stand. It may cause some more intensive shock in the begining, but overall you will recover faster. Just move on. Not on to the next one, but on to you. Do your thing, spend time with your hobbies, family, friends,... And don't dwell on thinking 'why?'. Just forget it and if possible, don't hold it against him.
"I don't want to hold your life on Pause"... Don't hold your breath The rest is self-explanatory. Now you can certainly ask him why he feels he can't fully love you, but odds are he will just respond back saying he doesn't feel the same. You were honest with your feelings, and it was great of him to acknowledge that, but being as it went South for you, at this point it is best to not let it get to you, and move on with life.
Maybe he likes you too but doesn't think it's gonna work out cause of distance. Basically yes, it's a nice way of saying it won't work out. I did go through something similar, I confessed my feelings to a friends with benefits but he said something alone the same lines.. so it was really heartbreaking but it is what it is just gotta accept it & move on. One day you will find someone who won't give you this answer and will openly & wholeheartedly want to be with you
First ,, I hope you don’t feel sad and “heart broken” to say due to his response. Because I’m not you and it hurt when I read the message. But you are lucky he didn’t get advantage of you and leave you after.. so yeah it’s good you know it now and move on.
You will find your true boyfriend soon 🥰 and be lucky this guy rejected you. You will know soon why universe helped you not get involved with this dude.. trust the process.
He was politely saying he has no "romantic" interest, and it sounds like the "distance" is a reasonably logical way out. But the bottom line is he's not interested enough to attempt overcoming the distance. So now you know, and hopefully you will "un-crush" him now !
He’s not interested and you did right by not dragging it on with your response... He on the other hand, did the total opposite. Drop him and never contact him again.
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He wants you to find someone else since he feel he can't give you what you're looking for. Yes rejection sucks but gee even people being honest these days is decent because so many people just ghost others.
at least he told you to move on without ghosting you or laughing. They're a good person, but this person knows that you two wouldn't be a good match. Don't think too much about it. Just move on and get someone closer to you
How is he a bastard in this scenario? I mean, yes, rejection sucs. But was he aware the OP was talking to him out of interest? I know many people and talk to them quite frequently without being attracted to them. We can not know what they have been talking about for the said months. When "confronted" with her feelings he did not drop from the face of Earth, but replied kindly and apologized. Based on what I see these days, this takes some character to do.
She is correct , In way if this girl told the guy she likes him then it means he approached her too much. And she got wrong signals. So he kinda water her time and give her hopes.. if that makes sense. Boys and girls can’t never be friends ever. I know this qs is asked often at gag and in real life. But when I’m friends with a guy it’s due to bc I’m Working he is my co worker lol. That’s it
That's the kind of shit incels say. Why can't men and women have casual conversations with each other without the expectancy of hooking up? You can't force someone to like you as more than just an acquaintance.
I'd bet if OP was a man and this person turning them down was a woman, you'd be telling OP to respect their decision. His reason for saying no is very reasonable cause you don't know if the relationship is gonna work in the long run. Then you're out a lot of money for either the trips to visit or moving everything you own to the new town you've likely never been to.
So in conclusion, having casual conversation with someone of the opposite sex is not a waste of time. Try and think about why the other person is saying no before you spew some ignorant crap like that again.
Don’t tell me with what you are thinking, you think I’m thinking the same way as you.
I said what I said! With my own thoughts! No add ons with the way you guys are thinking.
Look at the image post! It’s fuckin Snapchat, where people look for casual hookups and rarely romance. So in the end, someone is looking for something and this girl is looking for romance.
@cryscrys1 is right. Posts like these are common. Because guys draaaag a relationship with them not interested in a girl.
You guys want statistics? Look how many posts girls ask these questions and compare how many guys ask them.
How do you figure? They are talking for several months. Keyword: Talking. T-A-L-K-I-N-G.
Maybe, just maybe, for the dude, it's a casual convo, but for OP, it's butterflies - because she has higher level of feelings for him. It happens. Does not mean the dude led her on and on.
Oh my he just does not get it. Honey its not you the last 50 years because of divorce little boys grew up without out dad in the home. For last 50 yeas boy after boy grew up not knowing how to love women
Yes it is a polite way to say no. I never had such experience but I am sure you can move on.
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Anonymous
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It sounds like he's saying you both live too far apart from each other. Is that the case? I know with the dating sites someone can be on the other side of the world, and that makes things difficult.
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