How did your crush react after you confessed your love? Or how did you react when someone told you they had feelings for you?

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2plus2is4 · Accepted Answer

Apparently, every crush >irl I had was also crushing on me but I didn't had many crushes. :)
The first crush I ever had that I confessed to, I was really close and she was quiet but I could've felt heat emanating from her body. She was shy and anxious and accepted in a quiet voice. My ex.

The second crush I had knew I liked her before I confessed but she was playing hard to get. She came around eventually, but I ended up telling her that she was easy. My ex.

The third crush I had confessed to me, right before I confessed to my first crush. She played it off as a joke. I didn't like her at that time and she hated my first crush when she became my girlfriend. I only came around about two to three years later realizing how much I was appreciated by her, but she didn't like me anymore and she was already gone, lol.

My fourth crush, was crushing on me when she had a boyfriend. Wanted to claim her as mine, but I'd have done gone soft by all the heartbreaks. We already knew we liked each other and flirted around but no one confessed, and she had a boyfriend so, I guess that doesn't count. XD

CheckPlease · Accepted Answer

Well I asked out my good female friend to a movie date and the night before the date she ended it with a text. For two years I had lost my close female friend. This past year we have relaxed and become friends after running into each other and talking it out. Ending with a warm full hug and things just changed. She said that we will always be friends.

Well see if we can get back to being close friends but I doubt it.

So by confessing I lost a close friend for over 2 years.

Crazyylauraax · Accepted Answer

Well he blocked me lol... after I told him I had feelings for him, he took it well and said 'I understand but I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now, but I mean we can be friends'... at that moment I realized what a douche he was hahaha and then after while of talking he blocked me on WhatsApp and instagram... I think I was overwhelming him that I had feelings for him.

Justsomeonebored · Accepted Answer

Not me but... My best friend confessed two times to her crush... She said she'd never seen such a blank expression before. The guy just said something like "it's not the time nor place for this" after staring into eternity for a while... We're still trying to get what he meant 😂 maybe he said it because we're all still highschoolers but it can be anything dunno

Nobi-Wan840 · Answer

I got played like a fucking violin, she kept leading me on and then saying our friendship was too strong and she didn't wanna ruin it. She would hold my hand and everything until a friend would make a comment about us and then I'm right back in the friendzone

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I don't remember all. As far as I remember:
#1: She thought, I mocked her.
#2: We married. And divorced later-on (our mistake)
#3: She felt not inclined
#4: She had another one (I wasn't aware of this)
#5: We married. And divorced later-on (her mistake)
#6: She used me
I guess, my call is more on the scientific side :D

Anonymous · Answer

I was really surprised. I said I just needed a friend right then. Didn’t think someone like him would ever be into me. But I was very much interested and attracted to him, I just didn’t know how to react or handle the situation, as I had never had a boyfriend before. After a month or two I warmed up, and it’s a year and a half with him now and I can honestly say he is the love of my life. He was patient then, and he’s patient with me now.

DellBoy · Answer

Been confessed to: "I'm sorry, I have a girlfriend" I didn't. She asked me why and my reasons were, Number 1 : She was my best friend's sister and they looked so much alike. Number 2: she was 4 years younger than me. (16 & 20 at the time. Legal age 16 in UK ). Number 3: she wasn't my type. I didn't tell her number 3.

bulbbapet · Answer

Once a guy confessed to me and my reaction was "Whaaaaaa? Stfu. U r joking, loool. Anyways *change of the topic *" so he hasn't talked to me since 😃
Second guy who confessed to me and asked me if he could kiss me at the bus station and my reaction was "loool, no way there are people I know and stuff".
So it's basically a miracle I have a boyfriend now 😂😂😂😂

Mikuchan454 · Answer

Umm I’m dating them right now. And I usually date them if they confess, even if I didn’t like them at first, but I wanted to try it and out and try to find attraction in them over time. Give them a chance. Find something great about them I didn’t see before.

shadowkil338 · Answer

Women dont like me in that way... i have always been told im their friend... often best friends... though everytime that happens... they quit talking to me. So my reaction before i tell someone i like them is usually keep quiet because it has not changed in 15 years when i had my list girlfriend.

secretgirlxx · Answer

Most of my crushes I have never reacted good when I told them I liked them. Some avoided while some I became friends with and last one is my now current boyfriend and is working very well and I don't regret confessing my feelings for them now.

Strawberrie · Answer

He told me in February, I got really shy and messed up most of my words when I said it back, I had a hard time breathing and I had butterflies in my stomach. Every time he says it I get so happy and I still get butterflies. I love him so much.

AyushMate · Answer

My crush never replies my messages so confession is not possible😂😂😂 and someone will have crush on me that is also not possible 😂😂😂

MiddleEasternGirl01 · Answer

I didn't ever confess to anyone. In the times guys confessed to me it caught me really off gaurd, which wierdly made me unattracted to them

DrAsparagus · Answer

I just kind of went for it and asked her and apperently she felt something too, so yeah. More than half a year now

genericname85 · Answer

same thing most times. either they put me in the friendzone or i put them in the friendzone xD notice those that i want are never the ones that want me xD

Anonymous · Answer

When I will get to know it will respect his feelings. if for me he seems to be OK I will accept it otherwise friend if he wants to. Crush lol I never told my crush I had a crush on you.

Anonymous · Answer

He admitted his too... he did first, actually... and then announced he was dating and he didn’t want to feel like he was being a bad boyfriend and would thereby ignore me. It hurt. A lot.

imthatgirl1998 · Answer

I couldn't speak, I was blushing like crazy and I couldn't look him in the eyes

southernhoneybee · Answer

I'm in the same boat lol I want to tell him how I feel or even ask him out but I'm nervous.. in due time I'll get the courage and make my move.

The_Gentelman · Answer

Thats easy. The reaction was NO. Followed by many comliments and three or four other NO's. The othertime it was: ok. I didn't expect that. Followed by a long unpleasant silence.

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i have never 告白 not even on Valentine's day. when guys confessed to me it depended on how i felt about them but either way i wouldn't make them feel bad

xPurpleRosesx · Answer

I got overwhelmed I didn't know what to say and panicked

NessyTheMonster · Answer

I don't remember how I reacted, I was drunk at that time, and he was as well.

Anonymous · Answer

lol I tried to ask out this girl but she just walked away and laughed. I say it as if it hurt my feelings but it didn't. I was just laughing too. lol

OmgItsJoe123 · Answer

When I confessed to my crush, she said she doesn't trust love (she was lying) . Well, in other words, I got rejected by a weak lie.

EarthFairy7 · Answer

I'm too shy to confess to someone, but one time someone confessed to me back in middle school and I didn't like him so I ignored him.

PrivateJim · Answer

Just the usual appreciation and saying they don't feel the same sorry

Nicole1017 · Answer

Whenever I confessed my feelings for my crush he also confessed his feelings for me as well.

WeirdoWerdo · Answer

she was like oh okay I like someone else and I was also like oh okay fuck my life...

Rojaasu · Answer

She said "oh" and pretends it never happened not realizing that it hurts more than flat out sayi

WhoDatGuy · Answer

I fessed up on Sunday, it didn't go as id hoped. Still at least I can move forward now.

spaghettiyumyum · Answer

She ran away and disappeared into the sunset  True Story.

chrisv · Answer

I’ve had both. Where they banish you to the Friendzone - or fall at your feet..

Anonymous · Answer

Girls only want strangers to love them,. if a friend confesses they stop talking to them

jedkawil · Answer

I for some reason begin to like them unless they are really unattractive.

rcliff3 · Answer

She said they weren't dating this year, and then started hitting on one of my friends and I found out that that's the way she rejects people

Chazoo · Answer

What does it mean to have a crsuh? can you please explain.

Anonymous · Answer

Confesed to: I said ok let's go for a coffee and see how we feel about each other in a non work setting.

BoutinJustin · Answer

I told them they were kind of being obvious... then we went out.

Anonymous · Answer

Me: “And how do you feel about me?” Her: “I don’t know.” 😑

giftcards · Answer

Never had a crush. No one ever had a crush on me so never had to deal with it.

azmrah · Answer

Oh it was great it turns out he liked me back and we had an innocent thing going on

Anonymous · Answer

I usually become more distant even if I like them back

Anonymous · Answer

She said fuck fuck fuck. I don't believe it. Then she hugged me.

Aparnam · Answer

"it's OK, we will still be friends"

DarkPanda · Answer

I reacted like a tsundere.

Anonymous · Answer

Asked me to eat her out before her boyfriend came back

opurba · Answer

Really? I don't know anyone like that.

scruby · Answer

Totally rejected me, and we never spoke sinse

_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI · Answer

I got restraining order filed at me.

nine3ight9 · Answer

She was silent, but nothing happend

theFantasticJ · Answer

Love is just a chemical to get us to reproduce

thisisbreana123 · Answer

He said “I’m sorry”

Revolver_ · Answer

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