Yes, it is. I have confessed to two guys that I really liked. They weren’t ready for something, it’s not like I was either, but it felt good to finally get those feelings off my chest. I’m shy, but I’m also used to rejection, lol. Almost every guy I’ve ever liked has never liked me back.
If you have talked to them before, it might be less weird to profess your feelings for them; but if you’ve never talked to them and they don’t even know that you exist, instead of telling them you like them, ask them out for a cup of coffee casually, or ask for their social media like snap or insta.
I don’t think I’d ever make the first move on a guy ever again. It’s reserved strictly for guys I really really like.
How about yourself?
It depends-
If you think their feelings might be mutual? Sure! You have nothing to lose, and who knows, they might like you too!
But if you interact or talk to them, and they don't seem interested in you, or only give off, "We should be friends" vibes-
NO. Keep your thoughts to yourself. Typically you can sort of tell how someone feels about you based on how they talk or interact with you.
It's not a bad thing. Though I never do that, I am just honest so if one was to ask me or tease me about it I would just answer truthfully but I wouldn't go out my way to take them off to the side and tell them or something.
A good example is, Her "So ya know how've got a bit a crush on me" me "Yeah?"
So I won't deny it. In such example she didn't have feelings for me and it was just a joke. But in such example I had a crush on her. And that's usually the way it goes, they can normally tell if I like them or just ask me out right.
There are ways of telling someone you have feelings for them without laying everything on the line and risking losing them for good. I call it testing the water.
For example use the word hypothetically. So.. something like" If I was to tell you I had strong feelings for you, hypothetically of course, how would you react?"
That way you aren't committing yourself, just putting a feeler out there.
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it depends but be ready for disapointments too, the first one will always have some effect unless you over a period of time get rejected more often and accepted more often, this is for guys though, can't say for girl, Remember the first time you strated walking, it was the most difficult, the first time you started something it was the most difficult, so bear in mind that while you re being youself dont over burden yourself if you get rejected or feel like shit, its part of life, and if you re in high school, remember high school is the worst time for most people, its te wild west of growing up.
I don't see it hurting anything at all. The worst thing he or she can do is say no thank you. not interested. I had two boys in high school basically tell me that but I was just not interested in either of them. I know that both of them just wanted in my jeans. THAT wasn't going to happen and they knew it.
No you should keep your feelings to yourself, never letting them know how you feel. What do you think?
If you think there's a chance that they might like you back, go for it, just understand that there's also a chance they might not feel the same way. Not getting your hopes up will help with the sting of rejection a little.
If you were in a loving relationship, ask yourself how you would want someone with a crush on you to act.
u if they do not seem to be interested or feeling the same way, if there's no apparent reciprocation then I would just not do it...
I would keep it to myself and then just let if fade away, because it does... eventually
Yes, as long as they're single then there's nothing at all wrong with confessing how you feel about someone. Direct communication is always better than mind games and guessing.
It depends on how well or how long you've known your crush.
Yes, you never know if you have a chance until you take it. I know a lot of people that their crush weren't interested but they ended up dating after
You don't have to "confess your feelings." Just invite them to coffee or lunch or dinner or whatever.
Sometimes I think we all just have to be a little bit bolder in certain situations otherwise how's that person ever going to know
How else would you end up together? If you wait until a terrorist demand or divine mandate tells them to date you, you'll be waiting a LONG time.
Depends. Is it someone you have to see regularly regardless of the outcome?
That depends, do you want an answer to your question of whether he'd be interested? Closed mouths don't get fed.
If you're hoping to get something out of it and you feel like they won't respond too negatively to it, then I think it's fine.
Otherwise, it might be kind of pointless.
That is a suspenseful and debatable good question, isn't it?
No you should ask them out, not confess feelings, that you can do later if you end up dating.
No, not worth it to ruin a perfectly good friendship
I say it a lot as it’s one of a few things I try to live by… Never create regrets.
Depends on how well you know the person and the nature of the relationship.
