Polls: Flirting

there's a girl that I have been struggling to talk to for some time (I know its lame to be scared to talk to girls but still just hear me out) and today she gave me a "shit test" which for those who don't know is just soft teasing to see your reaction. It was a really easy test where she asked me a question about me acting different recently and I almost instantly froze up, stuttered for a few seconds, then made up a lame excuse before turning away and we didn't say another word to each other for the rest of the day.

Im pretty sure I screwed it up since before she had a neutral opinion about me and now its likely negative. Is there any way to recover from this absolutely idiotic fail.

So, there’s this girl I work with , and our dynamic has been throwing me mixed signals lately, making it hard to tell where I stand. We’ve had quite a few playful, high-energy interactions—she'll do things like compliment my cologne, initiate conversations by showing me things on her phone, and engage in some pretty theatrical, eye-contact-heavy banter that definitely keeps things interesting. On the flip side, though, she's also casually mentioned having a boyfriend when others were around, which adds a layer of ambiguity to the whole thing. I can't quite figure out if she's genuinely interested or just likes playing games and keeping me on my toes for attention, so I'm curious what you guys think is actually going on here. (For context, I have autism, so understanding body language and social signs can be really confusing for me—I tend to overanalyze things and then completely miss actual signs of interest.)

I'm not doing so as a pervert, but if I'm sitting down at the table, sometimes at eye level these women (waitresses/servers) just keep walking past in a dinner rush.

The black jeans / black tight pants nowadays - crikey. Talk about highlighting the hour glass 20s/30s women figures. ⌛ I didn't flirt. I kept professional as a customer / server relationship.

But man - damn some folks who only exist to wait tables - sure keep in shape. Ladies, you know your waiters are sometimes hot too.

For example- You could walk past them and say hi like a friendly or normal person and they wouldn't even get the idea that you're attracted