Polls: Flirting

you ever had red bull? you like the 350mL one or 500mL one? Im a white bull and I come in 5mL which is considered a large amount

i think this common meme demonstrates what i mean

Like if a person you find attractive does something that ordinarily could technically be harassment you have let them get away with it before?

Many men are afraid to approach girls they don’t know, and women almost never do it; it’s very rare. I used to be scared too but in high school I had a social environment, so I could easily meet girls by finding common ground in classes, and since I was good looking and successful, it was easy. In fact, most of the time, they were the ones who came to talk to me.

When I went to university for engineering, the number of girls decreased a lot. I stayed without a girlfriend for a long time. I got tired of this situation, so one day I approached a random girl I liked in the library, found an excuse to start talking, gave her a compliment, and got her Instagram. While doing this, I was so stressed my hand was shaking when I gave her my phone. But I succeeded it felt like I had unlocked a new skill in flirting.

I’m curious can you cold approach? And are you comfortable doing it?

I think for most people, skydiving creates less stress than cold approaching.

I consider restaurants, clubs, school, and stores to be normal places of course, I would also consider being honked at by someone trying to holla as normal.

Assume you're single for the sake of the question and assume that the guy isn't bad looking or annoying

Let’s say she’s interested in a guy, but he’s super shy and never makes the first move. He might like her too but is too afraid to act. Should she take the initiative, or is it still “the guy’s job”?

For instance, I tend to notice if she has a cute nose. Is that weird?