Girls, how do you feel about guys approaching you at bars when you’re single?

[Anonymous]

Leave us alone

Yes, that’s why I went there

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[DishLady]

Neither LMA OR “that’s why went there”… how extreme…


It depends on the guy and how respectful he is about it. I’m certainly not heading out of my house sharpshooting to a fellow. One usually just shows up at some point in the day’s journey and is decent to chat with or just… not.

[jennifer_bloom]

I do not want to date a guy I met at a bar. A guy I met at a school, a job, a church, an event, a volunteer party might get a chance with me.

[just_a_potato]

I love being approached at the bar by men and women alike, and I WANT people to. As long as they don't act creepy and handsy when I make it clear I'm not into it. 🤔

[Anonymous]

I actually feel bad for guys irt this subject. Because the answer is... it depends. And guys have no way of knowing. As women we expect men to take the initiative and approach us. But we only want certain guys to approach us under certain circumstances, but not other guys and not at other times. How are you supposed to know which and when?

[blshbnz]

Wouldn’t mind as long as he doesn’t start being creepy.

[Kvass]

Those options are too extreme. I don't have a rigid rule. I'm going out to have fun, but if a man approaching is polite and respectful, meeting someone new can happen quite naturally.

[fonduegirl]

Exactly

[MemeSupreme]

as long as they can take a hint idc


like its not something i’d be surprised about lol

[katiesmuff]

It wasn't an issue if the guy seemed to be legit and acted like a gentleman.

[Anonymous]

I dont mind it. Im at a bar, of course there's going to be guys there who are in search of finding "love". If Im there to be alone, as long as they respect my denial, Im ok with it.

[Anonymous]

if you are attractive, every girl would appreciate it. if you are ugly, every girl will tell you to leave her alone. Sorry but just the truth

[_Jenny_]

@Paige2006 I can deal with it, I work in a Gentleman’s Club

[RachyRach]

Don't mind it

[Anonymous]

depends, some are really creepy and annoying, and some are like decent and sweet, hard to say, lol

[queenofcardio]

I enjoy it most of the time

[Nikki1989]

I would expect no less.

[Anonymous]

That is a place I would expect it

[rgb008]

Bar guys are great. I love free drinks

[Paige2006]

Leave me alone

[Bianca00]

It depends on how approaches me.