Im having a long distance relationship like 1 week now and my boyfriend acts suspicious. At the first he was so sweet and now he's a bit cold. I told him what bothers me and if it's alright to change that. He told me that he will try but nothing changed. Yesterday he went with his friends (3-4 boys and 3 girls) to the club. He drunk a little but he said he did nothing. I was a bit angry at him and when i told him to call he said "oh my girl friend xxx is waiting me outside i gotta go bye". After some 3 mins or something i decided to text him "where are you" and then he answered "oh my girl friend xxx giving me some internet to reply you im at the park with her and just chilling" i told him that i font like it but he never answered that night. I was so mad. The next day we were talking a bit cold and when i asked what you guys were doing? he said " nothing we weren't alone my other friends came with us so you dont need to worry"so i was like ok, but when he posted a story the park i saw that there was only two shadows one my bfs and one his girl friend. I never told him that he lied just not to break up because i love him so much. Today i told him to call but he said he will go play guitar so i said okay and leave it here. After 3 hours I Texted him again and said" wanna call now?" And he said " not right now later". I was so curious what he was doing but i just let it go. A few hours later we started talking and i asked him what he was doing, but he just ignored me like 1 hour. After 2 hours telling him that i dont like what his doing and to tell me he said " its none of your business". I was furious. When i said that i dont trust him he said " fine i was with my friend watching a movie ". And i was like ok with who, but he just started making funny noises and telling me many times that its none of my business. Girls, Boys please give me some advices i can't do it anymore i love him so much but he changed a lot. Please write ur opinion down ๐ Thanks for ur time!
Girl i know how u feel and it sucks that he treated u this way. But, do u have trust issues before?
I meant i was at ur position where we had ldr, even tho i know he won't 'cheat' on me, but i kinda felt he acted sorta way of cheating, being sus, and suddenly hard to reach to talk, and his all excuses is not make sense.
Use ur sense girl, trust ur gut, if u find something different like 'this is not the way he act', its your rights to do what u think u shud do, and ignored about 'none of ur business', well br ofc its ur girlfriend's business! i meant helo r u someone's boyfriend or stranger to her, you 👏 are 👏 her 👏 boyfriend 👏
If u really NOT CHEATING, then prove it to ur girlfriend, simple as this. Not telling her its none of ur business or make her think opposite of u..
Thats what i do to be a good girlfriend girl, push away all negativity what my partner might think about me, send proves so my partner can trust me, always keep in touch and proudly introduce my boyfriend in front of my friends..
In conclusion girl, its fine if u feel worried about ur boyfriend on ldr, u love him u dont wanna lose him nor one sided relationship, once again, just trust ur gut babe, and oh, u deserves better than he treated u like a shit.
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He switched up on you in a week?
You are kind of too much for me personally.
Heโs cold tell him to put a Jacket on
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