i was texting my boyfriend and i asked him if he would still be with me if i had smaller boobs. (i have big boobs) i asked him this because i’ve been thinking about wanting to get a breast reduction and i was curious to see what he would say and he said that he doesn’t wanna be with a girl with mosquito bite tities and that got me really mad because shouldn’t he love me for me not my boobs?
I wouldn't say you're wrong for being mad. That's just an emotional reaction, but understand he's also not wrong. It's not any different from women refusing to date men who are shorter than them, or for having a micro penis, or for having a penis that's "too big," or for being to muscular, or too thin.
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I always find it patently absurd when people get upset about WHY someone else finds them attractive. Like, it's not enough that they be found attractive--the MUST be attractive for some VERY specific reason and not for some other reason. And usually the sentiment is something akin to "shouldn't he/she love me for my intense narcissism? Why can't they just love THAT about me?"
well yeah, you're a bit wrong.
you asked a question, so you wanted an answer. he gave it. he's allowed a preference, since I'm sure if he "drastically" changed something of his you'd dislike it.
Hell yeah, you're wrong sweetheart because your boyfriend answered you honestly and showed how much he loved you for who you are.
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Perhaps your big boobs were part of what attracted him to you. You can’t tell people what to like and what not
Wtf? Why are you asking your boyfriend shit like that? You must want to get dumped.
That’s a totally reasonable reaction. Even if he was joking, it’s pretty insensitive of him.
Yeah that's a normal reaction from you I think
He was just being truthful.
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