If it's a joke, it's completely normal. If I'm late to something, he usually says something like "I'll have to punish you for that, I think three whips of with belt should do the trick", but he never actually punishes me for something in 'real life', only for 'misbehaviour' in the bedroom.
As soon as he starts actually hurting or spanking you for doing something he doesn't like, or a fight, and he doesn't stop when you tell him to, run.
Does he spank you without your consent?
When he slaps your butt, does he do it jokingly?
If the answer to either of these is "No", confront him about it, and if necessary, go to the police.
If it was both "Yes":
Do you mind him jokingly slapping on your butt?
If you don't, then I don't see the issue.
If you DO, then tell him not to slap your butt and say things like that.
Joking is ok but actually slapping you to punish you without your consent is assault. Id suggest telling him not to if you dont like it. He probably just thinks its funny but if its legitimately making you uncomfortable then its not funny.
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So would you rather he didn't tell you and just got himself handfuls of ass at his discretion? Cause personally that's how I like doing it coming from behind and getting a firm yet comforting feel of all that booty and she loves it so I think Iv found a good middle ground
Not really normal. But if it works I don't see the problem.
Just so long as you don't see a problem either. I mean it's you being spanked. If that's a problem tell him.
Lots of people do this.
It's normal if you want it to be
did you know spanking is considered physical harassment, and i should technically call the cops on his ass?
It's normal if you allow it to be normal
thats nice over the knee for a good spanking
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