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I've been at college for about 2 years, made plenty of friends and met many guys and girls and texted dozens of girls and went out with a few, before that i dated 2-3 girls at work and had a couple gfs, according to everyone iam a pretty attractive guy (wish i knew during highschool lol) ...

Anyways, i remeber the first girl i ever went out with and grew to like because she was pretty and had desirable qualities, I was really nice, cared about her and showed her that after going on 3 dates together, what i got in return was that she ignored me, hurt me and acted mean... i retailiated by acting like a typical badboy, becoming more attractive (facial hair, and new style ), ignoring her ( according to an article i read) and ohhh boy did she come back crawling to me, we remained friends though due to other issues.

Which brings me to the big question : should men actually listen to women if they ever wanna get a shot with the woman they want? women claim to want sensitive men but go for unemotional guys, they want nice guys but usually date guys with a hint of assholeness in them who aren't afraid to be asses to these same women, they want guys to be clear but choose guys who never actually admit to liking them... and before you say anything i did all of the above and it works, quite a lot if i may say.

So here's the question , answer it, guys any girls alike and lets hear your views.