Search Results: wanting flings

The straightforward “fuckboy” tells you right away he is not interested in having a relationship but he wants to be friends with benefits. Sometimes he ask you out on dates, sometimes he comes over for sex. He even enjoys talking on the phone with you for hours (nothing about sex either). He is a good looking guy. High possibility that he is seeing other women.

The so called nice guy:
”good morning beautiful” text messages
Buy you gifts
takes you out on dates all the time even after sex
swears he is seeing no one else
when you ask him if you guys are in a relationship, he says yes.
When you ask to meet his family, he gives excuses (This is after years of being together)
Emotionally unavailable
tells you he does not love you but maybe he will someday (This is after years of being together)

Do not say neither. If you HAD to choose. Even if it’s gonna be “I see myself with this one but just for a fling” guys feel free to analyze too lol

So I’m in my mid twenties and fail to attract a man that I’d want to date. In HS, guys never asked me out and I didn’t get into a short term relationship/fling until I was in my early twenties. In HS, I was chunkier and didn’t look better until I was around 19. But even thinner, men didn’t ask me out. I go from being absolutely invisible to only getting noticed by men that I would not want to date. People tell me I’m cute and I thought the weight loss would help a lot. I feel so angry and bitter, if I really was pretty, I would get attention and have a pool of men to choose from. Beautiful people don’t have to try, are people lying about my looks? I don’t have a social life, I have had it up to here with people and only look through the apps. And don’t say that it’s because I’m using the apps, the apps work for a lot of people.